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how can i be strong when all i want to do is lay down and cry?

i feel like i am spiraling down. i am separated from my husband and just found out that i was right all along about the woman who was only a friend. i’m angry and sad. i moved to another country for him so he could finish his schooling. i thought i had moved past it but this information just brought me back to the same floor and feelings when we first separated…it hurts so bad. I just want it to stop. please help.

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slickster_9 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Tacoma, WA, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

well im not married or anything… but my mother is in a similar perdicament.. she didnt move to another country lol but its some type of like this.. i know it seems hard.. but the best thing you can do is look to god (if you belive) and just tell yourself its gonna be alright.. and another thing is.. look to your family for help.. theyre always there for you.. when ever you need them.. so reach out to friends family children for guidence and to stay happy even in the hardest of times..

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

hey….try to calm down…take a deep breath :)
Your marrige is over ..your housband was bad with you ..But you have your life you are healty so you have reasons in life why to be happy!
You never know when you find real love …love has no age limit . You will get over your sadness and anger ! With time the wounds will heal. Sooner or later it is over. Try to live for the present what happend it is past you have to forget it even if it’s hard. iIt will help you. In these moments try to see the little beauties of life. Walk ….see the sun …see the birds … listen to some music.. read ..just try to relax ..and Don’t Loos your faith and hope :)

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Ouch. :(

I’m afraid it’s going to take time. Try to think of yourself and what you need to recover. Do you need to go home? Do you need to just take some time to mourn? One day at a time.

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5 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

thank you guys…i am alone at the moment without my family and friends in another country otherwise, i would surround myself with them! i am usually a positive person but when he told me that, it was all a bit much for me. and it took me completely off guard. thank you for your kind words, it truly helps to hear them

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Marietta, GA, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 20 minutes after post)

This post hath a strangely familiar look…

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