I always seem to have guy issues.
If you have read any of my posts, my guy friends seem to fall for me. Out of the blue a few weeks ago, after a graduation party for my friends son, a guy friend of mine pulled me in his lap when i tryed to leave. To make this shorter all i have to say is i ended up falling asleep next to him. He knows my situation, he knows the i have a child on my own which i dont bring around any guy im interested in. I blew off hte situation as just friends napping. I got a phone call today we chatted, and he asked if i wanted to come over tom for drinks. I am not really in a situation to date anyone, i have my daugher, full time job, full time school, and rollerderby. (although he is a ref for another derby team) We are exsact oppisates, he is a health food NUT and i always have to bring my own food whne we hang out LOL he doesnt want kids (at least i think thats what he told me) At first i just convinced mysefl to sit down and talk to him about it. I dont know how to approach the situation. I truely think i might genuinely like him, as more then a friend. But i dont think that *I* am what he wants, I dont know if i should lay the cards out of the table right now, or just feel things out? Im just not sure where to go from here. Im not even sure if i like him just yet…. I guess im just cunfused on weither or not i should try to get to know him as more then a friend, or put my foot down and tell myself no. He is amazing, he is a college professer, intelligent, handsome, and everything a girl could ask for. BUT: Im not sure he knows what he would get into, there is so much politics in my life that i dont want to expose him to…let alone my child in the picture one day down the road when i know he doesnt really want kids.
i guess i just need advice on everything.. what do you think i should do?
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