It’s natural to get like that around someone you really care about
Don’t say it isn’t love because you can only really be yourself on the phone
And yeah as Ken said even write how you fell or record it
You don’t necessaily need to be face to face to share your feelings for her
ken its not that i dislike my shyness i welcome it i dunno i just want people to see me as an individual rather than another kid in a crowd.. and sarko i truly and fully understand your statement but i want to be meaningful to her but i cant do anything shes dating a better guy than me he deserves her i just want to remain myself you know??
im constantly contradicting myself maybe i jut dont know who i am iv recently made some lifestyle changes and im trying ot adapt =/
ha thank you guys you dont know how much youve helped me
i just wish you could meet her her gorgeous brown hair her eyes are something amazing big brown eyes make you melt staring into them she is truly amazing truly
yeh. right, if ur shy u should perhaps just blurt something out infornt of her. it may sound weird, but sometimes it works. also, expressing ur love for someon, and love it is, iv no doubt of that, there are more than a hundred ways to do it. talk to her, write her a song, do some art work, u wont just be a kid in the crowd.
i just wish she would notice my changes im not the same guy i was iv changed from my last relationship iv dropped my old friends and made new ones who support me but if friends is all i can have then i will swallow my pride =’(
if u like this girl. try and over come ur shyness. just walk up to her, dont think twice just do it. talk to her generally, be nice and happy. drop in hints of how uv changed. do this like several days in row, spontaneously talk to her.
after a while calm it down and try and to get to know how she feels.
its a long process. never just be happy with ur friends. it may sound harsh, but ull just get depressed when they all have girlfriends and ur on ur own.
basically, dont think twice, talk to her, show her how u feel before u can contradict urself.
ha im not shy around her well around my friends but i have been open ot her but all i got was cold rejection and im living in the past when we did have a connection its pathetic of me
oh ur in same boat as me then. yeh u aska girl, she says no, ur confused as to why. then tuings happen and u get so angry at her, ut u still love her so u live in the past.
right, im coming on the upside atm, i just need a push from someone thats why i came here.
write her an email, ask her why she rejected u, coz i know really u want answers, u lost confidence and need to know what went wrong. get the answers off her. and remember this, there are more fish in the sea. even tho i know that to u there is no one as awsome as her. but if she is unavailable, u need to move on. its grim i know. but u need to move on.
i dont know i thought if she saw my determination shed shine for me again but im only fooling myself and i know my she rejected me its because she sees me as the same little kid i was when i first met her and i ruined it i just want her ot be there again for me
u need to think of ways to make her see then. i dont really know how. if she is being naive and ignorant, u need to wake her up a little.
its not u thats the problem. not meaning to insult this girl, but perhaps she needs to stop being stupid and u need to bring her to reality. that sounds harsher than i mean it to.
perhaps she still sees u the same coz she sees ur still after her. perhaps if u take interest in someone else, she will see, and perhaps get a little jealous. that could give u a whole new canvas to work on
thats probably the most logical choice i actually wanted that but i gotta play the waiting game =[ her boyfriend u know?
yeh. its all about breaking a habit. if ur playing the waiting game, that gives u more time to show her who u really are, however its also more time thinking about ur situation which can be miserable. i suggest doing stuff that will help u forget for a while. iv stated my own band and studio, it seems to be working, but u still no those feelings.
also from here iv noticed that helping other people with there problems, helps u forget but also, helps u realize ur problems and helps u really well. sinse i posted about 1 or 2 hours ago, iv helped a couple of people, and i feel much better
il try that but i gotta sleep haha night1
of course you deserve happiness! people are able to express themselves differently. i have a hard time saying how i feel when talking to people. it’s easier now that i’m older but i had a really hard time when i was a teenager. i always had to write. that’s how i got into writing poetry. maybe you can write her a letter. and be honest and let her know who you are. let her know that its hard to talk about your feelings face to face. girls are a lot easier to talk to than you would think. don’t run from her though, you should let her know how you feel before its too late!
i have told her but like i was saying to alex all i got was a cold and darkening rejection
well-then maybe she does not deserve you. just because one girl rejects you does not mean that there’s something wrong with you, and it definitely does not mean that you don’t deserve to be happy. you will find the right girl, that will be happy and lucky to have you.
=[ shes perfect for me in every meaning of the word and her flaws are her best asset and all i want is one last chance ot show her i can make a difference again and ot prove to myself that if im determined i can have what i desire most its not only a pursuit of happiness but a test for myself i want to prove i can be happy if i try =(
so then don’t give up. find unique ways to show her that you care. make yourself stand out from all of the other guys! be yourself as best you can, if you totally open yourself up to her maybe she will see something she did not see before. and the fact that you go out of your way to win her over will help also!
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