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i really need help here

Im a guy. all my life iv had trouble with girls, perhaps im ugly, i am ginger, which is ridiculous reason and it sucks.

basically i founf this one girl who was fantastic, she was kind, cute, happy. i decided to get to know her, i asked her out pretty confident shed say yes.

she turned me down. it was a shock. she said she didnt want a boyfriend coz she thought shed be a **** girlfriend and stuff about exams.

fair enough i thought. but the fact the she turned me down, made her more attractive. it was weird. i statred obsessing, days would go where every minute of my thoughts were flooded by her.

i started to ask her why. she was vague, she liked me, in her eyes i was lovely, but to me it could be lies.

i started to get a little depressed, i realized that i was holding myself for this one girl, and effectivly stoping me get anywhere else, out of this pit. so i started to talk to her best mate. i asked her questions, such as am i ugly, am i a ****. she gave all positive response, she thinks im a good person.

however, her friend then tells me that she does get with other days out of school. even tho she told me she wasnt interested in boys. this made me insanly angry, i broke my knuckle on th wass of my bedroom, i flipped.

i had to get answers. i sent this girl an email, it explained all my emotions about her, and asked if i had any chance with her at all, and if not i need to move on.

i explained how angry i was at her getting with other guys, i felt extreme jealousy, depression and heart ache.

i guess the only comforting thing is that there are more fish in the sea.

she hasnt replied, its been 2 days. im started to feel really depressed.

i need help

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Im a guy. all my life iv had trouble with girls, perhaps im ugly, i am ginger, which is ridiculous reason and it sucks.

basically i founf this one girl who was fantastic, she was kind, cute, happy. i decided to get to know her, i asked her out pretty confident shed say yes.

she turned me down. it was a shock. she said she didnt want a boyfriend coz she thought shed be a **** girlfriend and stuff about exams.

fair enough i thought. but the fact the she turned me down, made her more attractive. it was weird. i statred obsessing, days would go where every minute of my thoughts were flooded by her.

i started to ask her why. she was vague, she liked me, in her eyes i was lovely, but to me it could be lies.

i started to get a little depressed, i realized that i was holding myself for this one girl, and effectivly stoping me get anywhere else, out of this pit. so i started to talk to her best mate. i asked her questions, such as am i ugly, am i a ****. she gave all positive response, she thinks im a good person.

however, her friend then tells me that she does get with other days out of school. even tho she told me she wasnt interested in boys. this made me insanly angry, i broke my knuckle on th wass of my bedroom, i flipped.

i had to get answers. i sent this girl an email, it explained all my emotions about her, and asked if i had any chance with her at all, and if not i need to move on.

i explained how angry i was at her getting with other guys, i felt extreme jealousy, depression and heart ache.

i guess the only comforting thing is that there are more fish in the sea.

she hasnt replied, its been 2 days. im started to feel really depressed.

i need help

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Mas 1st 607 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 36 minutes after post)

I think she was just trying to let you down gently - you have to remember that you oculd look like brad Pitt but it doesnt mean everyone will automatically fancy you. There has to be a spark there on both sides. Anyway the guys she hangs out with from school probably arent as serious as you think. You know she has the email now so you have done your best. You have to control your temper though - it is not the girls fault tht she didnt want to go out with you so punching the wall was dumb. Move on and get happy - most people find happiness andindependence very attractive, I think you know you have to move on - so get started. But dont keep asking this girl for answers - if she has something to say she will let you know. Get out and have fun - Mas

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katiekins 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 8 minutes after post)

im sorry but the fact is she doesnt like you.

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