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Ok, i have another problem..

When i think of intimacy, i think of doing it with “him”. Him= my ex.
We haven’t done it but we flirted a lot. Now that it’s all over between me and him, I can’t get him out of my mind. Occasionally, i have those thoughts about him. DUring class, i’ll start to daydream and he will come into my mind…and i’ll fantasize about him and i doing it….It’s embarrassing :[

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

it’s natural to fantasize so you shouldn’t be embarresed.

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friendlyheart offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
it’s natural to fantasize so you shouldn’t be embarresed.

i agree

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chamki_gir offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

ride through the fantasy, and stop judging yourself. there’s nothing wrong with it. clearly, you would fantasise about a person that you have had some degree of intimacy with, but that doesn’t mean you won’t find another person you’ll fall in love with or get attracted to. recognise this as completely natural, and find an appropriate release if you think it’s required… not sure how old you are and how much i can say… :) … but, trust me, it will pass…

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