Love help: I have a real problem with telling people what I think. - Help.com

if you cant say it in person try writing them a letter

perhaps you didn’t truly love those girls before more than life itself. Take your time. When you meet someone new it’s always hard to tell them what you think because we don’t want to be laughed at, or find out that the other person doesn’t agree with us or think the way we do. As you have found out, paintballs in the face hurt far less than having your feelings hurt. The truth though is that feelings are more important than paintballs. People all around you hide their feelings so someone who is more open and honest and isn’t afraid to tell you what they really think, is more highly prized than a phoney who tells you what they wish to hear or keep their inner thoughts to themselves. Start slowly. Don’t be afraid because we are all different and we all think things differently. But someone who speaks from their heart, and says the truth and says what they beleive and lives it, that makes you a far better person in the world and someone who will be found attractive by the woman who will truly love you.

Then how will anyone get to know you:)? I believe you have to be a friend to have a friend, it is a two way street:). Aren’t relationships based on sharing who you are:)? You are very lucky to have had four girls that you couldn’t tell you loved them more that life. How old are you:)?