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This girl has been making my life hell:

by constantly “bullying” me by calling me names and getting people to make fun of me! her best friends just started im-ing me and talking about how much that girl hates e and how she agrees that i am a freak, i lost it and told her all of the things that i have kept bottling up about the other girl! now she has printed out the things i said and is gonna show her parents and the other girls!!! what should i say to explain?

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Leopardfly offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Tell them you were extremely provoked. Give examples of the situations she put you into. If you regret saying those things now, then explain what anger will do to your judgement and self-control.

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Independant_Woman offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

tell exactly what she was doing to you to get you in that state there is no need to worry here as you are the victim not the “killer” as it were

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5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

thx- leopardfly, vegetabletarian! and all thos who follow!

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Amber Soul offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Middleton, K1, GB | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I’d love to help but I got here two minutes late! The advice I was going to give was the same as both Leopardfly and Vegetabletarian. :D You have nothing to be ashamed of, and don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise, you are the victim nomatter what you said to the other girl

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Tell the truth:) Say-she pushed you over the edge:) Next time, don’t bottle things up, be honest with people from the start and you will have friends that like you for who you are:), good and bad:), right and wrong:), we are after all only human:)

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

thx- The girl is making all her friends cold shoulder me! I know if they are doing it they can not be my friends but it annoyes me! thx 4 every 1s help!!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
thx- The girl is making all her friends cold shoulder me! I know if they are doing it they can not be my friends but it annoyes me! thx 4 every 1s help!!

Try to keep your cooooool and take up something to work the stress out on, boxing might be a good idea:), how about kickboxing:)?

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

I do boxing with my gdad- i know, but he is not here… i could get a pillow and bite it and punch it! what ya finc??

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I do boxing with my gdad- i know, but he is not here… i could get a pillow and bite it and punch it! what ya finc??

You have NO idea, that always helps me whenever I get stressed out,

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

yer i finc i will do tht (munch munch, grrr!)

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Independant_Woman offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

lol I go outside n kick logs when i get stressed

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I do boxing with my gdad- i know, but he is not here… i could get a pillow and bite it and punch it! what ya finc??

idk I don’t bite anything like that but maybe beef jerky:) I also like to run, swing a hammer and pour steel:), anything that is a challenge, exhausting, and doesn’t break your teeth is probably a good idea.

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

i once tried to kick the stone stair out side my house, i took my toe nail of… anyways backonto the problem at hand.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i once tried to kick the stone stair out side my house, i took my toe nail of… anyways backonto the problem at hand.

How is the hoppy of kicking things harder than flesh working out for you:)? And could you remind me what is the issue at hand:)?

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

This girl has been making my life hell:

by constantly “bullying” me by calling me names and getting people to make fun of me! her best friends just started im-ing me and talking about how much that girl hates e and how she agrees that i am a freak, i lost it and told her all of the things that i have kept bottling up about the other girl! now she has printed out the things i said and is gonna show her parents and the other girls!!! what should i say to explain?

thats wat it is

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

oh and it is going well, thanks for asking.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
This girl has been making my life hell:

by constantly “bullying” me by calling me names and getting people to make fun of me! her best friends just started im-ing me and talking about how much that girl hates e and how she agrees that i am a freak, i lost it and told her all of the things that i have kept bottling up about the other girl! now she has printed out the things i said and is gonna show her parents and the other girls!!! what should i say to explain?

thats wat it is

I already answered this question.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
oh and it is going well, thanks for asking.

Your Welcome:)!

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

yer- that was 4 people to come, if ya wanna help tell me how to not feel so bad about what happend!

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
yer- that was 4 people to come, if ya wanna help tell me how to not feel so bad about what happend!

How can someone else tell you how to feel? They are your feelings:)

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

ok- any 1 else want to try??

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
ok- any 1 else want to try??

Anonymous wrote:
I do boxing with my gdad- i know, but he is not here… i could get a pillow and bite it and punch it! what ya finc??

Anonymous wrote:
i once tried to kick the stone stair out side my house, i took my toe nail of… anyways backonto the problem at hand.

Salt and pepper with your pillow might spice things up:) but breaking your toe might slow you down, why don’t you try accomplishing something besides self abuse:)

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

urgh- wat else do u do…

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SoulRising offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
urgh- wat else do u do…

I’m sorry I don’t have one of the answers your looking for:). What I do and what you do seem to be different:). Good luck with your choices, try to make them not too painful:).

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Anonymous #
5 months, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

yer, i will try.

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envyrezno offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

teel your parents, tell teachers and autorities.

they set you up for that hunny b/c they want you to get in to trouble b/c for seom reason they dont like you.

and you know what, what they dont like about you is what they lack tehm selvs or dont like about them selvs. honest to god truth.

you were provoked. im sure teachers and such have seen some thing going on in school or what have you but not really sure as to what..

dont get violent witht hem dont get to their level.. keep your head up and go to your parents aske htem to call the girls parents what have you. but tell your parents first

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