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Okay..I told this girl that I like her, who is a childhood friend, through mail around 2 days ago.

She replied to me today saying that it was out of the blue and all (which maybe I think it was)…and then we talked for a while and all. When I asked for an answer, she swiftly told me bye and hung up. I don’t know what to do now. I feel like my heart’s broken into a number of pieces. I may sound like a pathetic loser to some, but I really, really don’t know what to do. And now I am babbling. How should I get over her? Or should I even try to get over her as she didn’t reply?

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steff offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 112 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

WHAT?? I don’t get it…in the mail??

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Well maybe you should have done it in person - I mean did she even have a clue you were going to do this. And what about the ring - did you even buy one?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Are you two even dating? How old are you?

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3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

yer- u should have done it in person, she must be realy confused. Try and meet up with her and talk to her.

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Anonymous edited this post 3 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

k..i had proposed this girl who is a childhood frnd thru mail round 2 days ago..she replied me today saying tat it was out of the blue n all(which maybe i think it was)..n thn v talked for a while n all…wen i asked 4 an answer..she swiftly told me bye n hanged up..i dont know wat to do now..i feel like my heart’s broken into a no.of pieces..i may sounded like a pathetic loser to some..but i really really dont know wat to do.n now i m babbling…how should i get over her..or should i??..as she dint reply..

Anonymous #
3 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

k..my mistake..not proposed..but i kinda asked her out..

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

What country are you in? You asked her out on a date in a letter?
How old are you?

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3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

o- right, then she is being ott about the hle thing, she mte finc of as a friend more than a boyfriend!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I did wonder - well that is not so bad but sometimes it is better to speak to them in person and then they can remember why they like you. It does sound as if maybe you have frightened her off a bit - so I’d let her be for a while - I mean she has your email now. Do you see much of her usually at school or socially or anything? Are you and her even allowed to date even if she wanted to?

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3 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

yer- i dont finc asking some one to marr y u in the post is the best ider!!

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kim, again. edited this post 3 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

k..i told this girl tat i like her who is a childhood frnd thru mail round 2 days ago..she replied me today saying tat it was out of the blue n all(which maybe i think it was)..n thn v talked for a while n all…wen i asked 4 an answer..she swiftly told me bye n hanged up..i dont know wat to do now..i feel like my heart’s broken into a no.of pieces..i may sounded like a pathetic loser to some..but i really really dont know wat to do.n now i m babbling…how should i get over her..or should i??..as she dint reply..

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kim, again. edited this post 3 months, 3 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Okay..I told this girl that I like her, who is a childhood friend, through mail around 2 days ago. She replied to me today saying that it was out of the blue and all (which maybe I think it was)…and then we talked for a while and all. When I asked for an answer, she swiftly told me bye and hanged up. I don’t know what to do now. I feel like my heart’s broken into a number of pieces. I may sound like a pathetic loser to some, but I really, really don’t know what to do. And now I am babbling. How should I get over her? Or should I even try to get over her as she didn’t reply?

Help me with: So, I’ll make this short.

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