friends help: How do you invite someone to hang out? - Help.com

“hey i’m super bored and was thinking about going to the movies or the park or something. wanna hang?”

just like talk casually about memories and stuff like that. and talk about where you are now. just talk as you would if you were face to face. then just casually mention something like…o did you see the commercial for that movie [insert name here..lol] and just ask. whats the worst that could rly happen?

the only problem I could think of is that he could think you’re asking him out. sound casual, manly, and slightly uninterested to prevent this.

yea. i agre with yodaluv. like maybe try to make it a group thing by saying…o do you want to invite other ppl?….if its in a group he wnt think ur asking him out

yodaluv12 wrote:
the only problem I could think of is that he could think you’re asking him out. sound casual, manly, and slightly uninterested to prevent this.

This is what I’m worried about, I don’t know what people say, I don’t want to sound gay or something, so what should I say?

you could tell him you were thinking about getting a bunch of people and hanging out… but then you’d have to find other people. does he have some friends you’re comfortable with?

Why don’t you have friends? Not to be mean but do you know why?

I guess I’m never the first person to talk, I always wait for someone else to talk to me before I start talking, I guess its because I don’t have alot of confidence in myself.

yodaluv12 wrote:
you could tell him you were thinking about getting a bunch of people and hanging out… but then you’d have to find other people. does he have some friends you’re comfortable with?

What if I can’t get a group together?

does he have friends?

That is a little odd. Do you mostly spend time with your family?

Do you have friends that are girls?

yodaluv12 wrote:
does he have friends?

yeah

Cell wrote:
Do you have friends that are girls?

Yes, but not like friends I do things with.

Hehe, that sounds exactly like me. I think I’ll be watching this post just to get pointers myself…;)

Just call everybody you know, hey I am trying to get a group to go hang out at ___ are you in? Just call around and people will join if not, call the people who said yes back and just say, “hey, plans fell through, maybe next week.” Good luck man, I have never had somebody call and sound like they are asking me out, so try not to worry about it.

but what if I want to go to the movies with someone without making it seem like a date? as in, not a group event.

texting is a lot easier.
thats how i learned.
its kind of like a training bra, its till you are ready for the real thing.
good luck!
ps sorry for the analogy.
it was all i could think of.

try, hey man, I was going out to see ___ you want to come?