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jaketerry_2
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I really like this woman…

she is a friends girlfriends sister…we have alot in common an dshe is very laidback she is 21 i am 20. we have hung out and had a few drinks together a few times and what not…anyways she i smoving to another city about 30 km ( roughly 20 miles) away we both drive and she has family here..we both work fulltime hours..is it advisable to seek a relstionship with said woman..despite the distance ….more than likely we would see eachother only once or twice a week… which is ok with me (for now anyways)..If it it got real serious i would be willing to move to be closer to her or evenmove in with her..anythoughts or suggestions?

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notyouraverageher offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Depends how much she means to you - I personally wouldn’t recommend a long distance relationship because they tend to be harder and more fraught than anticipated but the distance here doesn’t sound too bad. I only got one visit a month and that just didn’t work!

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1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

20 miles isn’t really too far, but I guess it’s a matter of how comfortable you feel with the driving to see each other. Only seeing each other one or two times a week might be a bit of a strain, but many couples make it seeing each other less often, so if you’re both willing to work through the time apart, the relationship can work. I hope it works out for both of you.

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birdie7 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (6 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Whats long distance… 30 km is close to nothing if you ask me. I’ve had a relationship with a girl living appr 200 km (appr 125 mile) north. This has worked fine for quite a while (we broke up a year after moving in together).
And right now I’m about to move abroad as an expat, so my current relationship (kinda to be…) will be what I call long distance: >4000 miles (6000 km). And we will most likely see eachother 4 times a year. This will be fine for the next 1,5 to 2 years, but should not be for ever.

I’d say go for it! Love is stronger than a bit of a distance!

Regards!

Jan Maarten

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