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neither, i would be a spinster for life!

overweight. Looks don’t matter, and beauty fades. All you need is love

I definitely have to say the overweight one. I am only 18, so through high school it was all about getting the “cutest” and “hottest” guy, but in reality, thats definitely not what matters. In the end, it would be better to have someone who treats you right, rather than have someone who your friends and other people think are good looking. Plus, when a hot guy is an ***, it makes him ugly anyways. Looks definitely don’t matter, its all about personality and how he treats you. :)

theres…not even a question there really lol. no girl wants some guy who treats her like crap. who cares if youre overweight

Love comes in all different disguises.

duh! I’d pick the one who treated me better, hands down

maybe i would not make this choise. even if the overweight guy is so in love there’s no law in this case to make my heart to fall in love with him if i’m not physically attracted. maybe i would give up with the boy who treats me like crap and i would kindly refuse the other one.

Whenever I run into a question like this, to me it’s the same answer. Young love primarily seems to be superficial (a brash generalization but please bear with me), where as people get older, and more experienced, things become a bit more clear that the content of a relationship is more important then the image of it.

Whenever I enter into a relationship now, I think about 50 years from now, when I’m 80 drinking lemonade on the porch, is this women the one I want sitting next to me. When both our looks fade and we’re just an old couple chatting, is this the one I want?

Cause that’s the important part.

I would pick the overweight guy and get him a gym membership. :)

overweight guy ;)

overweight fosho!
XD

definetely an overweight guy.
looks dont matter, its whats on the inside that counts! and i know taht sounds cheesey but its really how i feel! one of my friends has autism and a deformity but i dont thikn any less of him! hes still a person just like us! so if a guys overweight who cares? if he treats you rigth and loves you then thats all that matters!

it is true…it just matters how the guy treats you…not his appearace.

awwwe im sorry!

greejosh1 wrote:
thank you i just wish that the girl that i like thought like ya’ll do.

wellll, a lot of times, super hott girls dont feel the way i do, i mean im not terrible but most guys overlook me because im not super hott or whatever.

Just because the girl you like doesn’t realize all this now, doesn’t mean she never will. Give her time to realize that the boy she’s with is a moron. Until she has a ring, you’ve still got a chance.

Have you told her?

Well, if she knows how you feel then you have two options: you can move on, or you can fight for her. It’s really not an ideal situation, but it’s one that makes you decide what you truly, truly want.