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Buckle down at school, let your parents take care of your brother, make new friends, leave the dating till your older, find a hobby that gets you out the house, its time for you or you’ll end up going nowhere. Sounds rushed I know but I did all of this. It works.

Girl sounds like you need a true friend that tells you like they see it. You to be making a list of all the good things you see in yourself. From reading your post I can see lots.
1. You can see that your old friends aren’t on the same page as you, or you would be hanging out with them.
2. What the bothers are doing isn’t cool, and not for you.
3. You think more of yourself to let some guy use you to get off.
You are doing the right things, you just need to see them as awesome for you. But hating your dad, no sure about that, but remember it isn’t forever. When you start liking yourself better, that might go away. But the most important thing to remember is “NEVER GIVE UP” you don’t sound like a quiter.
Good luck
Carolyn

Remember that he isn’t seeing the real you, only what he wants to see. When he isn’t getting what he wants, he says things that he knows that will hurt and upset you. This is a way for you to question yourself too, don’t let that happen. Don’t let it work on you. He is self-centered and only thinking of himself. You need to right him off as trash and never talk with him ever again. Your self worth is important, you need to feed it because you are important. Always remember, when making out, make it a short time and be up front that you don’t go all the way, that way there isn’t any questions where you are going with it.
Good luck
Carolyn