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How do you get a guy to fall in love with you all over again?

How do you make him realize what a good team we made? How do you get him to remember the past?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

just tell him how you feel about him

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~Break-taking-bitsh~ offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 61 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I’ve done that, I do it every day. He is so stubborn! I am too though! It’s as if he doesn’t want to hear it because it makes him sad… he tells me that i’m making this harder on myself, but truly i think he’s speaking of himself…

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

remind him how great the past was !!! :)

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

how though? talking doesn’t help.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Stop talking, step back he should come to the conclusion that he misses you himself.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 24 minutes after post)

thanx, this is just what i’m talking about though. He ALREADY misses me… just won’t take me back and I still don’t know why!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (18 hours, 40 minutes after post)

How old is this guy? maybe hes come to a life desition that hes afraid to share with you.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (18 hours, 47 minutes after post)

He is 31 and I am 27. We were together for almost 3 years, lived together for 2 years. Now all of a sudden he says we’re incompatible, I am just trying to get different perspectives on the matter so I may try to better understand. If you love and care for someone as much as we did and the bond is still there, then isn’t that enough to try? Or do guys think it’s just too much work? There’s other stuff too but I’m not going to type that here right now…

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

I really don’t want to lose him to another person… :^(

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 7 hours after post)

Guys don’t really live in the past so I think that’s why your appeal isn’t working.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 8 hours after post)

but i’m not trying to live in the past really, just trying to get the future back from wherever it decided to go… i know i know, i sound pathetic and maybe i am but i’m in love and there’s not much i can do to change that right now… the heart wants what it wants.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 11 hours after post)

hey hunn personly i think you should maybe get together with him, maybe with a group of friends if that would make you more comfortable, just have a good time and show him how great you are! just make sure that it seems like you dont care if hes paying attention to you, make it *seem* like your moving on, itll probably set him off and he will know that he wont be able to live without you and he might talk it out with you and show you where hes coming from

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 19 hours after post)

going out with friends is a great idea hun, but unfortunately i don’t think he likes my friends that much. we are supposed to go out to dinner next week, we’ll see how that goies… i am trying to move on, but i dont think it’s going to make him come crawling back, I only hope it does. Thank you hun.

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leahdilorenz offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

Dinner is a good thing…go out with him, make sure you look and feel hot and confident- get a new outfit, nails done or whatever makes you feel good. Guys like a confident girl and he’ll probably love it. He may realize what he’s been missing.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

yeah i’m not big on dresses or skirts or make up but i have decided to wear a new dress my mom gave me, do up my hair somehow *hard to do it’s untamable sometimes* and paintmy nails. and EVEN wear make up… It’s hard for me to act confident when I reeally don’t feel it… but I am trying to not giv e up. it’s not worth it to me.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

I hate to say this but guys love makeup and dresses and all those girly things. And don’t do up your hair…long hair is meant to wear down. Trust me on this one.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

that’s how i usually wear it… and he’s not your typical guy… he mostly likes eyeliner… maybe i’ll curl it so it’s more wavy? what do you think?

and uhh, are you m or f?

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