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I need help about making this decision…

I’m thinking about running away just to see if anyone will take the time to follow or to stop me… what should i do?

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Do you still live at home?

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QueenLazyMcCoolBeans 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I think you should instead face the problems or issues that make you want to run away in the first place.
Doing it to see if anyone will stop you or follow you is a little immature, all that will happen is you will cause alot of heartache and worry and not to mention wasting police time as the police will get involved if you go missing.

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

yes i do live at home becuz im only 13… and im already packed i know how to but im not scared to see the result of it…

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

o and im going to ignore the comment nitroblasterfool9 sent cuz its not true i just need some help!!!

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

What is the reason or reasons that you want to run away?

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

i meant i am scared

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Are you alone alot?

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

what ever just stop replying! you’re really annoying! oh and fyi… im bout 2 runaway and not look back and when i think of coming back im gonna think of you and keep running cuz your a stupid idiot who doesnt care about anyones feelings!!!

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Nothing & No1 1 #
Boston, MA, US | 4 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Man on man..let me tell you its a scary world out there. What are your plans…where will you go? what are you going to do once you get there? Money? Just think about it seriously…you have a nice warm bed and home cooked meals

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

You need to let your parent)s) know that you feel unwanted or un loved,whatever your feeling.They cant read your mind.

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Nothing & No1 1 #
Boston, MA, US | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Felicity-{KIMKRISS} wrote:
You need to let your parent)s) know that you feel unwanted or un loved,whatever your feeling.They cant read your mind.

I agree

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I would really need to know whether or not your reasons are sensible for leaving - actual abuse? Also, do you have a GOOD plan?

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

i cant tell you where im going but i know and i have 200 dollars in my pocket… i dont want to tell them!

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Why not tell them?

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auntylane #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Do you know that $200 won’t last you a week? Who have you talked to?

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Nothing & No1 1 #
Boston, MA, US | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

200 dollars can’t get you much..it’ll be gone before you know it. Itz not going to last long and you could get robbed

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i know im trying to get more without mom and stepdad gettin mad and figurin it out!

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I think you are getting very much ahead of yourself. Can you tell us what is wrong at home so we can help talk you through some of it?

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

well my mom has this boyfriend… and it just goes downhill from there

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nilpro9 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Is he emotionally or physically abusive to you or your mom?

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

nvm just forget it i give up… i guess ill just stay here and deal with it… i lost the map thingy i had

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Nothing & No1 1 #
Boston, MA, US | 4 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Is your mom happy? do you feel like hes getting all the attention

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auntylane #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

There are important questions here you’re not answering yet. WHO have you talked to? WHY are you leaving - abuse? How old are you? What education do you have? Will you continue your education? How much $ will you NEED wherever you are going? Have you tried all other options?

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

yea! thats how i feel! he IS gettin all attention and im stuck with the kids usually, all 4 of them!

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

it doesnt matter im not gonna runaway anymore ok!

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Have you told mom about how it bothers you and not in yelling way?Thats what you have to do

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

ive tried she wont listen fully without looking over @ her bf!

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silly_lover 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

g2g now by! b back 2moro maybe…

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auntylane #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

GOOD - CONGRATULATIONS. Have you set any reasonable personal boundaries about babysitting? You could offer a maximum of free babysitting time per week, for example, and tell them your $ rate after that. Keep in mind that yelling is not productive conversation. If you can keep your cool no matter how they react it will go a long way (though it may take time).

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (22 minutes after post)

YOu sound really mad.You have a right to be upset,but this might helphttp://members.aol.com/AngriesOut/

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Sorry, try this one http://members.aol.com/AngriesOut/

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

And pat yourself on the back,YOu did the right thing. When we do the right thing instead of the easy thing it makes you stronger person.Good 4 YOU!

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Felicity 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

2edeeze,runaway is not like suicide.And the problem has been taken care of already.Please dont reply to posts if what you say will not help the poster.Im not mad or anything,Just trying to help you so that next time you will know :)

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jburn 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Hmm.
Try a different route.
Try talking to those you wish to get a reaction from.

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