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ok ive been with my boyfriend for 2years…

and my parents dont like him they think he isnt worth my time because the way he lives i mean he isnt the richest person in the world so it was last summer i ran away and i got put in a foster home in the town where he lives and we were sneaking around nobody knew we were still dating now i live back home and he broke up with me cuz he doesnt want to be sneaky anymore and he wants me to change the situation by trying to talk to my parents to let him come over and hang out or pick me up to go hang out at town or his house and i know i cant change that he wont be able to what do i do he said he doesnt want a relationship with me if i cant change it WHAT DO I DO

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hyrulelink1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

hey, if you guys are not with eachother, and he wants to leave u because u cant come and see u, then it not worth it. a guy who loves you and wants to be with u,but willing to wait for you.It isnt worth it if he doesnt want tobe withyou just because u cant see him easily. trust me, i will know so, i already broke my heart many times. it isnt worth it. but hey, i ma guy, i guess i dont really understand how u feel abt it

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Kat.peace of mind.. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

If he loves you for real he woulndt care and he will still be with you no matter what the situation is.. your parents should support you in any decision you want to make, but thats hard i undrestand you.. see if he is the right person for you , talk to him, and see if it is worth it..

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Help me with: I really need to find some one that can understand how i feel inside, but no one ever will because they ain’t me.
Isa_22 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 hours, 59 minutes after post)

im in the same situation that you’re in.
ive been dating my boyfriend for 2 yrs and we’ve been sneaking around for the past 2 yrs. my parents thought that he wasnt good enough for me either. but he was willing to stick it out with me, because he cared and wanted to be with me. now that we’ve been going out for awhile and ive proven to my parents that no matter what they do he’ll still be there its convinced my parents to ease up and have him come over n take me out n stuff.
so i agree with everyone else here, if he really wants to be with you, he’ll wait for you.

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missy95 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

O my god…I am in the same situation, however I have been dating mine for about a year and a half…Everything was fine until this past summer we got into an arguement and I was late for school; so I had asked him if we could discuss this after my classes…Well he went to my school and got arrested for several things and had a protective order on him…which didn’t make any sense to me…he does not abuse me in any kind of way… He just curses sometimes…Well now my parents don’t like him but we on the other hand were able to work things out and were dating again but behind my parents back. I want to tell them but don’t know how…I feel really horrible having to hide him…I don’t want that kind of relationship anymore and neither does he…What should I do?

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