Feeling help: i am not feeling this site anymore - Help.com

I know what you mean. I have always tried to remain optimistic here, but it is getting really hard to remain that way. It is starting to become more of a burden.

Who are you btw anon if you don’t mind me asking?

Do you know how many posts have been like this? This is not original. so many people keep writing posts like this. If you do not like the posts on this site then stay away. If you do not like when people ask about things that you feel are stupid, then stay away from those posts. People have the right ask whatever they want to ask. If you feel everything here is so worthless then why log on in the first place? I’m getting sick of people complaining. If you don’t like it, stay away. No one is forcing you to be here.

Perhaps if you say who you are rather than being anon, we might be able to talk more about it.

ambrutellow wrote:
Do you know how many posts have been like this? This is not original. so many people keep writing posts like this. If you do not like the posts on this site then stay away. If you do not like when people ask about things that you feel are stupid, then stay away from those posts. People have the right ask whatever they want to ask. If you feel everything here is so worthless then why log on in the first place? I’m getting sick of people complaining. If you don’t like it, stay away. No one is forcing you to be here.

*applauds*
bravo and well said.

We can’t control what people say when they coe on for the first time. Sometimes the first post might even be something inconsequential, just to test the waters. It’s a strange and wierd and diverse world. So you can’t filter out what YOU as a helper might like or not. It doesn’t, and can’t work like that.

yeah, i know what you mean. Noone seems to care anymore.

well people have thier own problems. you cant expect people to give give give all the time.

I was going to say ‘Then leave.’ - but then I read what you wrote.
I agree. People ask dumb questions. But not all the time!
It’s just like real life.. People ask stupid things.

ambrutellow wrote:
Do you know how many posts have been like this? This is not original. so many people keep writing posts like this. If you do not like the posts on this site then stay away. If you do not like when people ask about things that you feel are stupid, then stay away from those posts. People have the right ask whatever they want to ask. If you feel everything here is so worthless then why log on in the first place? I’m getting sick of people complaining. If you don’t like it, stay away. No one is forcing you to be here.

I don’t agree with this. Maybe the poster is complaining because he would like help to be better.

elysium87 wrote:
I know what you mean. I have always tried to remain optimistic here, but it is getting really hard to remain that way. It is starting to become more of a burden.

Who are you btw anon if you don’t mind me asking?

I do apologize for this comment I made and I take it back. I was going through a depressed phase.

i do really enjoy helping people. i log on because i feel that i do have the ability to help people. i’v got a lot of life experience and i’ve made huge changes in my life. i know what it is to be totally broken. now i have found happiness. i also log on because i have read some really great writings here. i have talked to great people. it just seemd like i come across a lot of fake posts or pointless things. i am not judging anyone’s problems. if it is our problem, then it is HUGE to us. so thats not it. it’s the things that obviously are not problems. it seems people write these pointless things just to make fun of the people that talk about real problems. i did not write this to offend any one. i wrote this under anon because i thought people make take it the wrong way.

Anonymous wrote:
i do really enjoy helping people. i log on because i feel that i do have the ability to help people. i’v got a lot of life experience and i’ve made huge changes in my life. i know what it is to be totally broken. now i have found happiness. i also log on because i have read some really great writings here. i have talked to great people. it just seemd like i come across a lot of fake posts or pointless things. i am not judging anyone’s problems. if it is our problem, then it is HUGE to us. so thats not it. it’s the things that obviously are not problems. it seems people write these pointless things just to make fun of the people that talk about real problems. i did not write this to offend any one. i wrote this under anon because i thought people make take it the wrong way.

I think many of us are feeling as you do, Anon.