Love help: Any advice on how to let someone down easy?

tmpy~is~back

Any advice on how to let someone down easy?

The guy I’ve been drinking and chillin’ with keeps trying to get in my pants. I am not comfortable with that and every time he touches me I want to puke and I get really scared. I am still in love with my ex, wholeheartedly, and doing that with Steve makes me want to cry because I still feel like it would be cheating on the guy I love,even though we’re not technically together anymore. Any hlep?

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emmabeans 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (0 minutes after post)

just tell him your not interested in anything like that. if he does it again, say im not comfortable. its the only way forward sometimes! x

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

If it’s a matter of this person making you uncomfortable, especially if he’s trying to get you in bed you need to be upfront with him and NOW. Before it gets out of hand.

Just be honest. And please do it soon before he does something to hurt you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (49 minutes after post)

You could be putting yourself in danger if you continue to see this man alone. Obviously he’s not listening to you, so he can’t respect you too much can he. If he make’s you uncomfortable then this is your woman’s intuition speaking LISTEN!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Tell him he has nothing to expect from you. If he does not listen, don’t go out with him. You don’t him any explanation.

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Reykjav�k, 10, IS | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

I think the key sentence here is “I get scared”. Sweetie…If he scares you you shouldn’t have ANY interaction with him at all what so ever. Listen to your intuition…your natural ability to protect yourself. There’s a reason why you get scared. It’s a warning.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 hours, 45 minutes after post)

I think I get scared because it feels like I”m cheating, but obviously, I’m not. I don’t think he will really hurt me because we have spent two nights together and he isn’t pressuring me he just doesn’t understand why every time he touches me I start crying… I have liked this guy for a while but I don’t consider him worthy of the chalice…

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