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I liked a girl very much,and I made friends with her.I

want to be her good friend.Initially she took some interest to come and talk with me,but after 2 months of holidays,she didnt even come and see me.I thought I’d to wait for her to come and talk wimme before I keep my foot forward,and am still waiting.Is she waiting for me to go and talk with her,just as I want her to come and talk with me?But the problem is that,wen we passed each other a couple of times,I smiled and looked to initiate a conversation,but she never returned the smile nor seemed like she wanted to talk with me,or at the least,see me. I really felt hurt,and I guess she’s ignoring me wantedly.I cant afford to be without having her as my friend,and at no point,want this relationship to break.But,I cant find any ways of being in contact with her if she’s ignoring me like this..Help me find a correct solution.

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help im in danger offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

i beleive that you should try ignoring her, wait untill she fells that she is getting the cold shoulder and then try to begin again, make sure that she is still interested though, she may be ignoring you because she wants to tell you that she isn’t interested but doesnt want to hurt your feelings.

tom h, kent, 13yo

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sowmya_9 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (23 hours, 30 minutes after post)

well..that seems possible..but what shud I do to make her interested in me? I cant force her,can I??:(

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help im in danger offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

no but u can try to make her feel the way u feel.
try talking to her, and see where it goes from there!

tom

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