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Richard cor de lyon
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Are you in the zone?

“There’s no such thing as a problem without a gift in it’s hands. We seek life’s problems because we want life’s gifts” (R. Bach)

~ Are you in the zone? ~

I’m guessing most of you have played sports at one point or another in your life. Have you ever noticed that when you are playing against another person or team that is better than you that you kick-in that little bit of extra “juice”? You know that if you stick to what is comfortable; to what you always do, that you will loose to this team for sure. You have to stretch out of your comfort zone if you expect a competitive game, let alone WIN! You rise to the occasion.

Why would you think anything else in your life would be different? People always say, but Richard you are talking apples and oranges. I’m not playing a baseball game here; I’m trying to make Executive Director of the company I work for! Is there a difference? Do you have a team that is (or can be) working for you? Do you have opposition? Are they better than you in some ways? Hey… I’m here to tell you life is life, and the talents and gifts we bring to the table are the same every single time – there is no difference.

If you want to rise to the occasion you have to break free of your comfort zone. Change is never achieved by doing the same thing. The Dali Lama says, “… great love requires great risk …” I believe this and I’m willing to take it further to say anything great will take great risk…

You can’t really be a surfer, if you never get your belly off the board. RISE to the occasion - break out of your comfort zone, and GO FOR IT!

Bright blessings ~ Richard

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Am I in the “ZONE”;)

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{Felicity} offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

GoodPost Richard,I have to confess.Im guilty of this,hadn’t realized it until recently when the “Empty nest syndrome’ hit.Iam working on it.I think that as long as I stay ‘comfortable’ I don’t risk and If I dont risk,I will not gain.Been thinking of making a post on taking risks,but if you want,be my guest.Bless You Richard :)

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Wooohhooooo… way to go Soul!!!

Go for it Kim… you know I love your posts :)
Bright blessings ~ Richard

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Funny you should post this, yesterday I reached an impass and I broke out of my comfort zone, Thanks Richard.

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

:) thanks for the replys - there are no coincidences… you know that Fizz :) Your welcome btw :)

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Fire offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

… my extra is usually still less than their normal.

but i get what your saying.

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

ahhhh that’s the beauty of it Thisfire… the playing field doesn’t have to be level. You might not win… but when the extra juice is flowin’… you’ll still feel like a winner!

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danbo513 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

good post, one that i needed to read. thanks.

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I’m glad to have been able to help Danbo. Thank you for sharing :)

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Tictactomm offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Right on Richard. Only dead fish swim with the stream!

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours after post)

yep… exactly Tomm and the only industry that resists change is the Cemetery!

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Tictactomm offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Hahaha. There are no luggage racks on hearses, no pockets in shrouds.

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 44 minutes after post)

Richard cor de lyon wrote:
yep… exactly Tomm and the only industry that resists change is the Cemetery!

My husband has an idea to turn all cemeteries into golf courses, bet people wouldn’t like that change! lol

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 56 minutes after post)

OMG….would they sell little golf tees that look like finger bones you could stick into the ground? Instead of flags marking the holes… it could be a foot and leg bone!…lol… the 19th hole would be the Mortuary? Not a very lively place… would you have to take your shower in the embalming room? uuugghhhh!

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

rofl, it’s his plan not mine, I’ll have to tell him your ideas.

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Tictactomm offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Edmonton, AB, CA | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Hahaha. That is one clubhouse that won’t run you a tab…

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Fizz offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

roflmbo Tict that’s for sure.

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