Love help: I am a single mother of twins and i need help! - Help.com

i am really close to your situation. i have 18 month old twins and i need a really good long break

Dear tired mother, please contact a reputable bible teaching church and share your need. I live in Kansas and would gladly help but assume you are probably not close by. I am a stay home mom and will say prayers for you and your sweet babies. Email if you would like. Angee

I just delivered twins and have a seven yr old and am single. I went back to work after one week of delivering I need the money. I ask God why ask me to bring them into the wold with no means of providing for them. I am 37 yrs old and feel as if I have lost my life. I want you to know that you are not alone. Don’t give them up. Check with large local churches they tend to have outreach programs to help ubtil we are back on our feet. I will try to check back to this site, we can support one another and offer encouragement. Hold on. Also try going to temp agencies for work until you can go to broadcast school. Even I know deep down God is making a better wat for us we just have to trust Him and find the joy in our present situation. I love you and God Bless.

i am also a single parent with a 3 year old and twins that are 3 months and it is very hard i really dont know what to do. I dont want to give them up but its hard.

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I hope you are feeling better. I am not a mom yet. But it sounds like you are overhwelmed. Apply for food stamps or welfare if you have to. There is no shame in that. Look into adoption/foster care services if you just can’t handle it. Go to a church and see if there is outreach. Pray. Think of how you can CREATE the life you want. Write down everything. Write down what you want and need and figure out a path to clarity. What about your family? Mom? Dad? Sis? Brother? Uncles? anybody? An old teacher? Anyone? There’s got to be a couple of people you can scramble together that can assist from time to time. Sit in the park when the weather is good with the babies, look at the blue sky and try to meditate on a better life. Avoid all drugs and alchohol at this time. Spend your days praying, even when you are walking down the street, pray. Find something to laugh about about the situation. NO matter how bad it is, look in the mirror and smile. Make yourself smile. See the humor even in tragedies, and you will find that slowly you begin to see light. Slowly. One step at a time. One step at a time. Do one little thing each day off the list you wrote towards CHANGING your life. Whatever you do, don’t give up. Don’t hurt yourself. Don’t hurt the girls. They could one day grow up to be movie stars, doctors, whatever. And you can still have all you want with discipline, courage, faith, and fortitude. One step, one day at a time.

There is a place call 4c’s they provide help with daycare payment for kids with mom in need. they are in santa rosa california. but if you live elsewhere you could contact them at 707-526-6901. don’t give up is hard raising a kid. I am 22 have a seven month old, I have a full time job, have a baby and am going to school. I don’t have any aid so its hard for me as well but im doing it with love & Faith. It will help you thru and be strong for those kids. APply for wic they can help you with your kids formula or food.