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hi im having a hard time with my friend

i just learned that she is not a virign im not upset of what she did is that fact she wasnt a virgin for a long time but she told me that my other freind new if were suppose to be best firneds why does it tak you a long time for me to find out and why play as your so innocent when you hear people make sex jokes your like ewww oh my why would this person do such a thing
then when i discuss it with her she gets mad then start talking nasty so i yelled then she say dont yell at her like a ******* animal if we are good friend why can we talk to each other respectful

and at this moment she not talking to my i seriously dont know what to do i just feel like leaving this sititaion alone and moving away from her because she bring negative energy

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signmycast offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

she probably had her reasons not to tell you, and she probably didnt mean to get mad at you, but you shouldnt get so upset with her

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Autumn Winds offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 18 minutes after post)

We’re all entitled to our own secrets and to let them out at our own pace. She may have felt that you were having a go at her, even though it sounds like you weren’t.

Apologise for shouting at her the next time you see her, or wait for a while and then apologise. Either way, just apologise :)

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chunsa offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

She’s probably just insecure. There’s a lot of double standards with having sex in our society, and she probably doesn’t want to be seen as dirty or as a ****. She’s probably afraid of being judged. Let her tell you if she wants to tell you; don’t take it personally.

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