I need some advice.
I’m in my early to mid twenties and have been married for about 2 years. And I’m 4 months pregnant. About a month before I became pregnant, my husband (who is the same age as me) began hanging out with people at his work that drink all the time. It’s several guys and one girl. When he started hanging out with them, we started having problems. He would come home increasingly late, never calling when he said he’d come home. Getting drunk every time he went out. We began having problems, and I told him I wanted to leave. The next day, he had a nervous breakdown and said he wanted me back. He was good for a month and now that my first trimester was finished, he started acting out again, saying he knows I’m his best friend, and that he knows he loves me, but now he’s questioning if he’s “in love” with me. We’ve agreed to work on things through the pregnancy, and we’re considering separating for a couple of weeks later. Sometimes I wonder if he’s trying to be a teen again (which he told me is the main appeal of this new group) and he’s freaking out about the upcoming responsibility. Sometimes I don’t know what to think. I’m really scared. Should I try to talk about things with him, or should I let go of things for a while. Oh, and I hear rumors about him and this other woman and she is always calling and texting him, yet for whatever reason I believe him when he says they’re just friends. Help!
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