man help: I am opoku frank a black man . - Help.com

Ladies, it it time again!

All single white female Help.com users please line up.

and rush please, he needs one NOW.

With all the respect Opoku, but this might not be the way to get some sincere help.

I agree. Word your post differently and you may get a response. Otherwise people are just going to ignore you.

Why are you afraid to approach them? Many ladies like men, and you are a man. My mom is a white lady and she married a black man. I really don’t think race is an issue unless she is wearing a white bed sheet …

In all seriousness people!!! skin color does not matter!!! Just approach a white woman like you would any other woman, geez

am white by nature when i sit a lot under the sun i turn black but that doesnt change who i’m or what i stand for , even if the moon would turn my skin to green and my skin color is green , i will always know who i’m and what i stand for…

tricky wrote:
am white by nature when i sit a lot under the sun i turn black but that doesnt change who i’m or what i stand for , even if the moon would turn my skin to green and my skin color is green , i will always know who i’m and what i stand for…

you don’t turn black if you sit under the sun, you turn tan or red, if you sit there for too long. What a response! waaa waaaa. what does this have to do with approaching women?

ambrutellow wrote:

tricky wrote:
am white by nature when i sit a lot under the sun i turn black but that doesnt change who i’m or what i stand for , even if the moon would turn my skin to green and my skin color is green , i will always know who i’m and what i stand for…

you don’t turn black if you sit under the sun, you turn tan or red, if you sit there for too long. What a response! waaa waaaa. what does this have to do with approaching women?

yeah i should have been more forward some ppl dont get it :P it seem… i know i get tan :P am not blind :P the thing is , what difference does it make if she is black or white we are all souls under the skin…

But Mas, I was arranging a line-up for him to pick from…

Girlfriend? …takes a second look in his knickers… =)

Perhaps no one here has ever been to a country like Ghana. The term “white woman” refers to pretty much any woman from America. I am black and in Ghana I am referred to as “white woman” because they perceive me to have wealth. Don’t be so freaking judgmental. Perhaps he is in a bad poor situation. Sometimes bad conditions can press one to do desperate things. And if a woman goes to Ghana a marries a man. That is her choice, you cannot blame the man for what a woman chooses to do.

No you can’t. Maybe the women shouldn’t be so goddam stupid. Most men are con artists and if women choose to trust them it is their fault.

Ok, as my comments might have seen offended as well, let me explain my motivation.
I like to have things clear.

I was the first one to comment, and I used sarcasm.

1) Help.com is not a dating website, this does not mean a question on love of where to find it can not be asked.
2) The user is still not verified, makes me wonder about his sincere intentensios.
3) The formulating of the question was very poor and I found it offensive against women.
4) the word ‘now’ at the end of the sentence.

Though I still believe it might be different, therefore I gave some short advice at the end of my comment: Ask differently.

Second comment stayed sarcastic, simply because the poster didn’t comment at all and posted a second question on the same matter.

Third comment was not towards the poster, but towards Mas.

I hope you understand my motivation, Nothing Matters Now. If there is one person not judgmental, it would be me. Read all the other comments I made here on Help.com if you feel so inclined.

*intensions, sorry, early morning here.

I didn’t apologise either, I explained why I commented like I did.
I like things to be clear and like not to be considered as someone without sincere positive intentions.

Alas, I am out of this. If Nothing Matters Now wish to contact me about it, please do so in shout.