guy help: I wanna get married.

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I wanna get married.

What should I do?
I am a 23 yo guy and ive suddenly developed an uncontrollable desire to get married. I feel like im gettin old and I want to have kids already. Ive got a college education and a good job and money isnt an issue. I just need to get married !!!

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Do you have a girlfriend?

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dasd45as4d6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

well ive only known her for 3 months, shes still in college.

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Reverend Twitch 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 minutes after post)

marry me!! hah, not really
well, i think finding a girlfriend would be a good start
unless your the type to order brides :O

you feel this way now maybe it will change, dont rush into anything you’ll regret!

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

well… I’ve never really heard of a guy having the ticking clock inside, but it’s still pretty cool. No worries… you are still very young (relatively) no matter how you feel. Marriage is of course nothing that you want to rush into because of feelings. I mean of course there must be love, and your feelings are the main reason to get married… but some people rush everything before the truly get to know their partner, and that can be very tragic.

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okei! 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i am older than you, yet i am not married still. no plans either.
marry the right person for the right reasons.
otherwise, you will only be creating a problem.

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okei! 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

three months is a short period of time to know the person you will marry

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Kimmi 22 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I have that feeling too but I am 27. It’s all I can think about lately that and kids.. Thats really cool though that you feel that way except don’t rush into anything because if you do..your in for a lot of heartache.

jabbox 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

dasd45as4d6 wrote:
well ive only known her for 3 months, shes still in college.

wait a bit. marriage is like a camping backpack, problems that seem petty will turn out to be major headaches later on.

Just wait, love doesn’t just happen strong.
it needs to be worked on, forged into a strong bond over time.

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okei! 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

well said. but unless you want to have a difficult life and more regrets and disappointments, go jump into marriage now.

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dasd45as4d6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

I dont wanna end up like those guys who are in their 30s-40s and still hunt around for girls. I want to marry and stay true to one.

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okei! 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

u stil hav 7 yrs to go
dont wori

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dasd45as4d6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (33 minutes after post)

but my cousin got married and he is only 18 and i have friends who are having kids and they are my age i feel left out =(

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Reverend Twitch 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

dasd45as4d6 wrote:
I dont wanna end up like those guys who are in their 30s-40s and still hunt around for girls. I want to marry and stay true to one.

just wait for the right chika to come, i think it will be worth it in the end right?

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vonda3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 days, 9 hours after post)

I have been divorced for almost 4 years and have been dating this guy I knew 2o years ago for about 6 months and I really feel that I am ready for marriage again as well. If you and your partner are willing to work hard at saving your marriage than go for it. But, if either one of looks as divorce as an option, or wants to draw up a prematial agreement than don’t waste your time.

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Knight_of_the_lord_O #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

Girlfriends are forbidden by God, just look for a good woman, i’m sure there’s plenty. Don’t waste your time with girlfriends, people are advising you wrongly with their foolish opinions. Go get married straight away, dive right in! Love’ll come later.

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chell.dg2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

did you manage to get married?

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moochi_ #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

I agree some what I am 23 years old i wanna get married but i have to finish school and stuff, i think i wanna get married when im 24 or 25 but life always throws curves at u so u never know, cuz i wanna go back to school after im done to get a bachlors, if i end up having to get married in the middle who cares, if i have kids well… i dunno but as long as i have faith life will work out its elf, i won’t worry. Just have faith and pray about it, ure still young.

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