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what should i do?

i have been dating this guy for only a few days but it’s been 3 weeks and he hasn’t been responding to my calls, texts or emails. we have not contacted or seen eachother for over 3 weeks. please help me.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Whao there. If you have been texting, phoning and emailing, with no replu, then STOP. You are heading over into stalker territory. He will phone you if he wants to.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Guys like to do the chasing, they don’t like being chased.

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

but it has been 3 WEEKS!!! we usually text everyday!!!

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

I think you might have to accept it is over and move on. If he calls you fine, if he doesn’t then at least you have your dignity.

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

i do wanna finish it but i wanted to see what people thought

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Reverend Twitch offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

dont act desperate for him, it seems stalkerish and will only draw him away
no matter how bad you want to call, let him make the move

goodnight :)

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Not only that, guys are pretty cowardly about ending relationaships, they sort of leave you to guess and they creep away. It is a rare man who is brave enough to face you and say it is over.

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jabbox offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I have to agree, if he won’t call back, but he wants to remain in contact, it’s like saying “I don’t have time for you”
either way, you dont want to stay.

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mcafeem offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

he obviously does not care about you…three weeks with no reply=not caring

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I would just stop with the contact and walk away.

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

good point shellfish.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

You will find someone better, and someone braver!

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jabbox offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

you want that

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

yeah, you are right!

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jabbox offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

man, times like this make me love this site.

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

thank god for help.com huh?

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jabbox offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

you don’t know the half of it

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Good girl. Now put your chin in the air, be brave and remember he is the loser, not you. Then you will meet someone you deserve.

(Just then, he will come back, tail between his legs and it will be too late! Tough old boy, she’s got someone better.)

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jabbox offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

wait
you do. you’ve been here 2 months

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

yeah, shellfish you are right. thanks :)

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Shellfish offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Compton *Cat* wrote:
yeah, shellfish you are right. thanks :)

You’re welcome sweetie. Good luck. :)

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

ok cheers shellfish :) XX

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jabbox offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

remember, no man like that is ever worth your dignity.

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

yes, jabbox, i think i have been on here for 2 months. wow? that long already? anyway, thanks anyway :)

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Compton *Cat* offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

i have just deleted the contact number for him

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CaptainKzoo offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week after post)

Write his sorry A** off. Sounds like he is immature and needs to grow up.

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