what should i do?
i have been dating this guy for only a few days but it’s been 3 weeks and he hasn’t been responding to my calls, texts or emails. we have not contacted or seen eachother for over 3 weeks. please help me.
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Whao there. If you have been texting, phoning and emailing, with no replu, then STOP. You are heading over into stalker territory. He will phone you if he wants to.
Guys like to do the chasing, they don’t like being chased.
but it has been 3 WEEKS!!! we usually text everyday!!!
I think you might have to accept it is over and move on. If he calls you fine, if he doesn’t then at least you have your dignity.
i do wanna finish it but i wanted to see what people thought
dont act desperate for him, it seems stalkerish and will only draw him away
no matter how bad you want to call, let him make the move
goodnight :)
Not only that, guys are pretty cowardly about ending relationaships, they sort of leave you to guess and they creep away. It is a rare man who is brave enough to face you and say it is over.
I have to agree, if he won’t call back, but he wants to remain in contact, it’s like saying “I don’t have time for you”
either way, you dont want to stay.
he obviously does not care about you…three weeks with no reply=not caring
I would just stop with the contact and walk away.
good point shellfish.
You will find someone better, and someone braver!
yeah, you are right!
thank god for help.com huh?
Good girl. Now put your chin in the air, be brave and remember he is the loser, not you. Then you will meet someone you deserve.
(Just then, he will come back, tail between his legs and it will be too late! Tough old boy, she’s got someone better.)
yeah, shellfish you are right. thanks :)
Compton *Cat* wrote:
yeah, shellfish you are right. thanks :)
You’re welcome sweetie. Good luck. :)
ok cheers shellfish :) XX
yes, jabbox, i think i have been on here for 2 months. wow? that long already? anyway, thanks anyway :)
i have just deleted the contact number for him
Write his sorry A** off. Sounds like he is immature and needs to grow up.
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