boyfriend help: I want a boyfriend :’( - Help.com

you need to be picky and no exactly what you want and don’t settle for any guy you know won’t make a good long-term lover!

dont let them get to you they are the ones who should feel bad your gourgeous theyll realize they messed up my ex girlfriend realized it pretty fast theyll think wow i had someone who cared about me more than anything and would of done anything for me and i took her for granted.
youll be alrite, hope it all works out, big hug

if thats you in the picture, i doubt you’ll have trouble finding a boyfriend.

agreed

some people use pics that are not of themselves. i havent seen it much on this site, but ya never know…

Agreed with the fact that it’s not going to be a challenge finding a boyfriend, but finding agood one? If it’s anything like finding a good girlfriend then I’d make sure you don’t pick the first one that comes along out of desperation, and get to know em properly before you commit to anything. It’s easy to get hurt, but that’s no reason you shouldn’t try. After all, it’s all to easy to get hurt doing lots of fun things, but the fun outweighs the hurt potential. I think.

i believe you chaarley

yea pick carefully dont just start to date someone i mean im from a real small town in iowa so i know every girl and what there all about so its easier for me to find a girl i know i can be with, i dont know your situation but i would deff say make friends first its way easier

Funny, I want a girlfriend… ;)

i dont want to kill the love here but there is more to life than haveing a bf :P it’s only 4 month ur singel it’s not like ur 60 and didnt have a date , move on with ur life and when the time is right and the guy is right go with him… for now than my advise is live life….

Chaarley, you are a pretty girl–that’s coming from a guy. And I’m sure you have a very nice personality. But here’s your problem: you want a guy like a girl wants a handbag or a pair of shoes–you want an “accessory.” You feel incomplete walking down the sidewalk without a guy on your arm. It’s also a mistake to start out saying you want a long-term relationship. Those things come after you’ve found someone that you like, who likes you, and who is of good character. Just get out there, put yourself into circulation, and be receptive to a new relationship. Don’t load the relationship with “freight” like wanting to get married right away. Most young guys do NOT want to get married right away. You’re right: most BOYS will lie and cheat and do stupid things. Set your sights on MEN when you’re old enough. Most BOYS around your age can’t find their behinds with both hands in broad daylight. In other words, they are totally unproven and they haven’t accomplished anything up to this point. Their character is still under development. They have many lessons to learn. So, don’t sweat the boyfriend thing and just be receptive to going out for FUN, and not to jump into a “long-term relationship.” You’re creating a lot of stress for yourself AND the boy with this long-term thing! Just take it easy, kid! ;-)