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Okay I ended a friendship in the middle of my school

year, and then at the end of school i lost another friendship (they thought i stole their I-pod), just recently i lost another friendship because i found out they were using me. It hurt so much because all these friendships lasted years but i don’t want to cry or stress out about it because it’s summer! I’m hoping I get better friends now since I just got a new job but I need advice on how to keep my friendships long. Any advice?

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steff offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 517 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Obviously your friends find it hard to trust you. Do they have a reason?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Possibly the person you broke the friendship with in the middle of the school year, was the one that kind of held things together even if it didn’t seem so. I had a similar thing happen to me.

I told this girl I wasn’t gonna be her friend anymore, because of kind of retarded reasons, just stupid little girl reasons. But after I did, not even a day later, all of my friends started fighting with each other. Me and the other girl kind of held everything together. And for the next year or so, there were several battles about who’s side they were taking. Needless to say, more people supported me, but I fought every step of the way with her.

Advice, you will probably never see those people again. I regret wasting my time, trying to get them to take my side, when there wasn’t really a friendship there. And I mean we were friends all through middle school. Hung out everyday, etc. Just get new friends. And remember there not the most important thing in your life. They should support you, and you should feel like you have to be someone else, or you can’t express yourself fully to them, if u feel uncomfortable with a person that you a friend, ask yourself hwy you do

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I’m a very trust worthy fri3ends. The girl that thought i stole her i-pod was stupid. I got jumped and my brother was there to watch and he told i got jumped but she didn’t belive me. The friendship that i broke iun the middle of the school year was for personal reasons. She wanted to have a kid at 17 and asked this guy she didn’t even know to be her dad.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

what a freak, lol. I don’t understand why you would want to be pregnant at 17 or any age where your still in school. That makes no sense to me. Was it scary to get jumped? This is why I make friends with the gangster people at my school, there always around, and can jump in if needed. lol.

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

These girls sound crazy. What made you ever consider them your friends? Do you also steal or jump people or aspire to become a pregnant teen? I’m sure that they didn’t just start doing these things.

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