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I hate him.

but a part of me just wants to kiss him. what is wrong with me!?

So there’s this guy- the only guy i’ve ever kind of dated. But it was very innocent- I was 16 and he is the only guy who ever treated me in a romantic way. However, this guy ended up hooking up with my (now ex) best friend behind my back, broke my heart, and had the nerve to CALL me and tell me he didn’t mean to hold my hand the night before, and took it back. I know, very junior high, but it was still heartbreaking. ***, right?

Well, now we’re 19 and we’ve started to somehow hang out again. It’s weird, it took me so long to get over him but we had no closure. and I have NEVER been to attracted to anyone the way i was attracted to him. There’s all this tension between us. we just have chemistry. and both of us are too nervous to do anything about it. I know if we got together I would just end up heartbroken again. it just wouldn’t work. and after what he did to me, he doesn’t deserve me. period.

But the other part of me just wants to kiss him. He is a good looking guy. But suck a jerk. What should I do?

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

maybe your friend made him call you about the hand holding. Could you ask him why he did that?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Personally, I think you should stay away from him. Just because he’s good looking doesn’t mean you will be happy with him.

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Help me with: Umm..
titie_ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Yeah, i hate him too..I used to love someone ,who is gentelman and sensitive ..I thought he was the one.. then we`ve broken cuz of his stupid reason..but he still on my mind,and I think I could never fall in love again..no one can make me feel so good like him..I miss him..but you will find another guy sooner or later,try to think abt his bad behavior..not the good time..

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bardavid39 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 hours, 4 minutes after post)

dont be with him if hees a jerk because if hes only good looking then well thats not enough for a relationship to last

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