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I am going out with a guy I know is bad for me and I know I will get hurt, but I like him..

Should i end it?

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (0 minutes after post)

If he will hurt you dont put yourself in that position

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1 year, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

End it.
I know a girl like that who used to date this real jerk, but stayed with him for the longest time. She wanted to break it off for the exact same reason, but kept the relationship going and was miserable every step of the way.

Then one day she told us she got rid of him and seemed really happy, even though he kept harassing her for a while.

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titie_ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

when you play with fire ,it is normal when your hands get burned..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

it can feel like the most horrible thing to do, to burn a bridge between you and a man. It is one of the hardest things a young adult goes through. However, if you are strong and can stick it out there is light at the end of the tunnel. I have been through this and thought I couldn’t survive because I relied on him to make me happy, but after getting out of the relationship and after time I have healed and you can too.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Try playing rock, paper, scissors:)

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

how do u know ud get hurt?

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bardavid39 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

i think i know why you like him , i think you where probly hurt and a kid and you always thought you didnt diserve good because you where always told that , and now you probly think its ok for hi to do that but its not i say either leave him or end up geting hurt more and more because if hes hurting you then he truly dosnt deserve a girl like you

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