Love help: Once again!

prttytrisha

Once again!

K… I posted earlier about some things going on right now and it all came down to the boyfriend/fiance. I love him with all my heart, but things are just not good right now. I have been very stressed out lately and i have been crabby, but he just thinks I am being a b*t*h because i just feel like it, and he says that he doesnt want to break up but he doesnt want me to be mad/sad when i am on the phone with him.

I am just getting to the point that I dont know what to do. I feel like he is being rude telling me that I need to stop being angry and everything, but he is not doing anything to help out with the relationship. Sorry but I cant have a relationship with myself, it has to be 50/50 and there needs to be communication, otherwise it wont work… so I am very stressed right now…

Wondering what to do, how to go about talking to him, anything! Just let me know your thoughts… and I am sure that I will be hearing some things over again from my last post from those who posted on there.

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sunxfyre 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Maybe he just wants everything to be alright naturally, have everything calm down a bit. And I don’t understand why you’d feel that its rude when he tells you to stop being angry. Maybe you should stop being angry and it might make things a bit easier for both you and him.

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~lilies~ 383 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Hello Trisha! It is so sad that he does not actually comprehend what you really are having now. He cares about you , see he did not let you go. But he needs to understand why you are having those moods.

It would not help to tell you to stop having those feelings bec you would only feel like you do not have the right to feel moody or crabby. You have the right bec you are stressed and no one can dictate your feelings.

He needs to know how to take care of you. Not pamper you but not to tell you to stop.

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littlenick 174 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

I think I already gave you my thoughts. You will figure out what to do when you anaylyze all the responses to your previous post.

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littlenick 174 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

He sounds like he is selfish and needy and clingy! You need to move on from him, bon amie!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

I know someone who is like that. Telling me to change my feelings to his advantage. I want a man who knows how to treat a woman right. Some men do not understand this even with their grown up age.

Please try to see if this relationship is worth it.

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prttytrisha 88 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

I want a man who I can depend on to help out around the house, in the relationship, ect. I need someone to love me for me. Ben loves me and I know he does, but the way he goes about things just hurt me sometimes. I want someone to love and to maybe have a family with. One of my wants is to have children, but with Ben I can not have any babies, unless we use help from the fertility clinic.

It just seems like I am giving up alot of things for Ben. I am even moving 7 hours from my family for him.

:( idk what to do… I am so overwhelmed!

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icv 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Perhaps you need to figure out why you are angry first and foremost. Perhaps you are depressed,resentful,worried, or many other possibilities. We all want to be loved for who we are as a person, but some are not capable of loving us in that way. The best advice I ever got about relationships is if you see yourself together with a person forever, but want that person to change to make it right it is time to think twice about whether that person is right for you, and likewise you for them. Whatever you do don’t settle for less than you deserve, and don’t make the mistake of thinking there is no-one else for you. I did and it cost me 10 years + of misery. Just reading between the lines a bit seems to be deeper relationship issues here. Good luck!
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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Thank You!

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icv 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 35 minutes after post)

You are welcome

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