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well me and my boyfriend had sex the other night and we used a condom but it split…

i got my self checked out incase i had an STI but i dont :) but they said would i like to take a pregnancy test….to see if i was pregnant…i said yes…so i took the test the next morning and it came back POSITIVE!!….
and i dunno how to tell my boyfriend and he keeps saying he wants to have a baby with me but im not sure if im ready… but i need to no how to tell him i will be having his baby or i will be carrying his baby…im scared he might split up with me as its unplaned

what do i do
please help me!!

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WashuChan offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 89 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 15 minutes after post)

For one, you found out you were pregnant THAT SOON?! WoW! Second, if he is staying with you because of the baby, theres something wrong there. I mean, he can be in the babies life by other means, but this means that he actually wants to stay with you as well, not just the baby. You two need to sit and talk about this, as this is a MAJOR decision, not to put pressure I mean! Just try to talk to him about it first okay? This might help.

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Staceyy offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

but do u fink if he wanted the baby it would be unfair on the bay as it is unplaned??

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