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I am so depressed over my financial situation I am not functioning well.

I haven’t been this low in a long time. I am getting nothing done and not talking to anyone who calls or texts me. I am a hermit and my son is keeping himself busy thank goodness. Any suggestions about getting over this bad time?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Not suicidal, just severely depressed, too depressed to do anything.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

You mean like move off the sofa or even wash a clean plate - like that?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

I get that way sometimes and just have to find a new focus. Sometimes I stay in my cocoon for a day to recharge before refocusing.

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Jowers2 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Keep ur head up I lost my $11.50 an hour job and now make only $7hr My car was reposessed and i am broke my rent is 600 a month my bills about $350 with40 hrs a week
i only bring home 800 dollars a month, i also have 3 kids and a new one onthe way.

Some how thru all this my head is still above water it just takes a bit of creativity, just keep ur head up with the knowledge that there be better days.

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Jowers2 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

and prayer helps tremendously

great stress releiver

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The Clue offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Minot, ND, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Don’t let them bother you. Your going to have them the rest of your life unless you win the lottery. Pay off the important ones and talk to the creditors and tell them that your going to send them 25 a month until you can pay more. The main thing is make a budget and stick to it, they work. Hope this helps :-)

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inside_instincts offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Personally I’m not sure about prayer. George Carlin has said “I pray to Joe Pesci and get the same amount of answers praying to God”. Life is difficult and the only thing we have to do is keep breathing. I’d recommend to searching for some local help. Some churches offer some financial assistance as well as some local agencies. Social security is a good thing to, just have to fight their decision if there really is a problem. It’s a shame that the world has to revolve around money. It does so much damage.

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arls offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I am in the same boat and unless youve been here you dont know how low it is to be struggling so badly that you are at your lowest point in life. I am getting counseling right now which is helpful if you are willing to work it and change. Venting is helpful and just know that there are many like us out there. And to those who say sell your computer, or belongings …..hell this is my venting station if we sell all our belongings then we get even more depressed then suicidal. Well…… I wish I had an answer…. Maybe I will scrounge up change and buy a lottery ticket and win a million and share it with ya!!!!!!! Still have that ounce of hope left…..I’M STILL TICKING!!!!!!!! lol

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