Love help: My boyfriend left two months ago and I love him very much. - Help.com

My friend,
You need to build up your own self esteem.

You have a broken heart but you need to accept the reality.

If you really love this other person you need to let go.
Just as the bird is held in the hand so to does your friend
need to be free to fly if he chooses to fly back that is up to him.

The more that you push for him to come back to you the more he will want to fly away.

You need to accept that you have a lot of person work to do and that the break up
is an end result of 2 persons actions in the relationship.

You must be strong and endure the heart break but there are plenty of other people
out there to love and to hold.

You are a worthy human being, do not cheapen yourself by seeing yourself as less then the other person. Everybody is equal. Treat yourself with respect and love.

If all else fails find another friend. But in the end we are merely projecting our lack of in our self onto others who have what we want and need. You need to find within yourself that which is missing and become a complete person.

Randolph

If he is giving you excuses not to meet, maybe it’s time for you to move on? What do you think? You bump into him and he’s busy? What kind of crap is that? If he already knows how you feel, it’s time for you to ignore him and move on.

Littlenick,
I agree if there is nothing there well,
move on

Randolph

Well, after Randolph:) and littlenick:) I don’t have anything to say that would add. You seem to be in good hands, my friend:)