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Today is a bad day.

Last night was a bad night. All i can do is consume myself im music and hope tom. is better then the last few. It seems like everytime something great happens I get stomped on.. repeatedly.. like a puddle in a rainstorm. When is enough finally enough? I feel as though I can’t ever get something right, it makes me wonder what is wrong with me that I only have a couple friends, and I just can’t figure out why I can’t be that girl, you know , the one that finds love, happyness and everything that comes along with it. Im not sure i want to accept myself, for who i am anymore…. It’s breaking my heart that I can’t just be normal, drift into the back of the bar where no one see’s me. I always have to know everyone… yet have NO real connection with them. I always meet amazing guys, who never call… or people who i just want to get ot know, who just can’t handle me. *I* dont know what to do………… WHEN is enough finally enough?

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guitarman9191 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i’m confused

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liblady offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (15 minutes after post)

me to….

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Left offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Hello. liblady. It sound’s to me you ust need to have a nice soak in the bath, relax, watch a movie, have a goodnight’s sleep and you should feel better in the morning. If not come back and have a chat.

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sos1234 offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

I feel your pain because I’ve been there too, well I’m still there ^_^
But sometimes you’ll feel good too. I mean bad time don’t last long and the bad news is that good days last shorter.
But the better news is that if you get through the bad days, you’ll meet the good ones.
Or that’s what I think ^_^
Hugs to you and all people feeling bad too!

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liblady offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

yea.. i just wish it was that easy.. sometimes i feel like im just not good enough to do the things i want to do………………

im lucky that i have the friends that i do

but i want more.. i want more with my life…. i WANT a nice guy…. I want to not feel inadiqute(sp) i just want to not have this vocie in the back of my head telling me im never going ot make it.. im never going o get a good guy.. no good guy would ever be intereswted in me.. im so tired of it all… everyone thinks its funny.. what happens to me, but i can feel it slowly breaking me down, i can feel it coming to head if it continues.. i want to just lay in my bed.. in my robe and sleep for weeks.. ive never really thought myself as depressed.. but i think im getting that way.. i just feel like im never enough……..

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 4 years, 12 months ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

well I like you.
You need to have more faith.
Not religious faith but faith in yourself.
you will succeed .
There is a right person for everyone.
You will find that person.

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liblady offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (2 hours, 53 minutes after post)

i am begining to think thats a lie.

but whatever… I am just over stupid people.. which is pretty much everyone in my town…..

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Left offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)

liblady please don’t think of yourself as inadeqite (i can’t spell it either) =)
Sure you feel down now but if you don’t pick up and think of all your positive traits you will spiral into depression. It’s no fun at all. You will forget about seeing your friends and it will just get worse.

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liblady offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

nah the friends i have will come get me out of bed naked and make me go drink myself retarded before that happens.. im good there..

im just so sick of stupid boys.. and getting my hopes up

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Left offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (12 hours, 14 minutes after post)

It’s time to date Men, leave the boy’s to the girl’s.

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bramblejelly offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 12 months ago (17 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Dance with God, for he’ll only let the perfect man step in.

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bohica767 offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

Dear liblady:
I see by your post your having a very difficult time with guys primarily. Not to be conceited, contact me, you’re problems will be over. I am single and do not pley games

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