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I need help…

. I want to move to New York, I want to get a good job and find a decent place to live. In a bad situation and need to leave immediately without husband knowing and I’ll have to come back to get kids later when i can figure out my life without my husband. I need this ASAP, any suggestions?

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epointmarketin 2 #
Eden Prairie, MN, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

WOW. slow down. do you know anyone in newyork? right now you need to TALK to your husband no matter how hard it may be. Being this rash only leads to more problems.

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1 year, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Sorry I’m just needing to start fresh without all this baggage left her i really hate my life and right now i can’t find anything positive i’ve lived this for to long.. I’m not the person i used to be and the spark in my eyes is gone… I just want out and there is no other way…

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "New York, marriage, York, tourism, Situationist, life, Find, place, live, job, new york jobs, new york help" 1 year, 5 months ago.

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Eden Prairie, MN, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

This is really something you should be telling your husband because obviously at some point in your life you cared for him enough to marry him. he at least deserves to know how you are feeling right now.

Help me with: does cnet networks have any job openings?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I think that you shouldn’t rush into anything. It’s important to plan out a big change like this. The Blanchard’s 5 step DREAM program really has helped me make two big changes recently, one personal and one professional. You may not have time to look at it now and think about it, but even if you do decide to do this big change quickly I think when you get to NYC you might wanna spend some time on their website: http://livewhatyoulove.com/ they offer a lot of positive and practical advice about making your life a happy (or happier) one. Good luck to you, please keep us posted!

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1 year, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I really appreciate the advice from everyone… I just came on the computer and typed in help because honestly thats exactly what i need right now i just don’t have anyone at all to turn to and i feel so lonely it hurts so much, and i just don’t want to do this anymore i’ve always considered myself as outgoing and happy and positive and today and for years i don’t know this person i am anymore i’m so unhappy and desperate.

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "New York, marriage, York, Money, Situationist, life, Find, place, live, job, new york jobs, new york help, Help" 1 year, 5 months ago.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

What about your husband you just dont love him anymore is he making you feel like this?

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Felicity 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

I cant read all replies right now,but you really need to think twice about leaving the kids behind.Without something notarized to say your husband wont charge you with abandonment, you could be in trouble ands chance losing them.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Possibly the change in your personality is just on account of age and having kids.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months after post)

I know exactly how you feel! I feel like running away from my husband, even leaving my youngest behind. I know the feeling of desperatly needing to clear your head, and think. Yet not having the oppurtunity. It’s hard! However you really need to do whats best for your children too. Take them with you. It’s better for them to see the struggle and recovery then to feel left behind and not important. If your running, maybe theres violence? If so, take the kids for sure!! Theres no telling how he’ll react. Go to a church,a womens shelter. Get help,see a therapist if you can afford the time and money. I am in a planning mode myself to get out of my bad situation, but I have to take the kids. Your in my thoughts, and prayers. I wish you luck! BTW, thanks for sharing! It really helped just knowing I’m not the only one!

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US | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months after post)

Thanks so much gotawaywiti I really appreciate your sweet concern… Hope everything is okay with you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers also… It really does help to know people are out there concerned because there going through the same things. Thanks so much for taking the time to write me back!!! Have a fabulous night…

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