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girl help!

i’m 14, and there’s a girl that i REALLY like. and not just cos she’s hot. but she’s a close friend (same old story right) and i don’t really know what to do about it. If i get the courage to ask her out I don’t think she’ll say yes and then it will be awkward between us… but if i don’t ask it will just be grinding at the back of my head. help wud be nice plz

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claire.28 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I’d stick with the friendship if you aren’t sure :)

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Smarty offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Just become closer… so you’re not dating, but you’re really really REALLY close mates… that way, you don’t jeopardize your friendship, and you get to know eachother better. And if it progresses further, then great :)

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steff offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 107 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

If you don’t think she’ll say yes, don’t ask. Maybe just wait until you guys are closer…and maybe one days she’ll start to like you too. For now just be loyal.

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katkkcoo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Erm… thats a toofie. I would only ask her out if you are sure she likes you or wait and see if she feels the same way. If you do ask her out and she says no then dont break freindship over it just move off her . Its hard to be rejected but im sure things will work out.

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3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

grrg dunno what to do. guess i shud try and get closer but i don’t get out on weekends enough

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