My soul hurts for my friend…
She has been hit by cupids arrow! She has fallen in love. She thinks that her boyfriend is falling for another girl. He is far away so she can do nothing. And that girl that he might be falling for lives right where he lives. He says that there is no chance, but he has nothing to back it up. It hurts me to see my friend worry so much, what should I do about this?
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ok know ur wondering how!
well if u really are her frnd i think u wud kno exactly wat 2 du…
P.S. ur frnd is very lucky
I’m horrible at helping people! When I tried conforting her I made her worry MORE!
same here..i am horrible at helping ppl 2!
well du u think telling her to get over him will help?
i mean she cud find sum1 else ryt..coz it seems she really dusnt trust him..
Well the sum1 else idea is a don’t. She is completely in love with this guy, completely head over heals drolling over him! (I know little much but 100% true)
Don’t confront her… let nature take its course. i know it sux to just sit back and feel like you’re doing nothing, but when the time comes, if it does, just be there for her to let her cry on your shoulder. just be her friend. i’m going through a bit of my own crap right now, so i just will wish you luck. :)
Yeah thanks…Good luck to you too.
sorry if it sounded hopeless, i don’t mean it to be at all. she just needs a friend. you obviously care for her very much but don’t push her away with confrontation… that doesn’t always work with people. i really hope that you find a way through this hun. Thnx for the wish of luck. i could get you in touch with someone on here who is great at advice, but she’s off for the night… let me know, it’s the least i feel i can do to help right now. she’s very kind.
Ok thanks. I’ll take any help that doesn’t include me dancing. :)
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Ok will do :)
This the same girl Himiko?
The one whos dating that guy over messaging and texts?
Yeah but she called me a lil while ago.
Is everything okay? What happened so far?
Well his ex has been hanging out with him alot and she is getting testy about why he isn’t answering any more…
Hmmm…. not good. Your friend is crying isnt she? Not good either. Just hold her, thats all I can think about. Her heart hurts… only time can help that out, I hate time… stupid time… But just be there for her in her need.
…Be there? I can’t…
Why? I know it hurts hun, but you have to, she will feel so much better if she has you to talk to and you there for her to cry on.
…She doesn’t cry and neither do I. We are the best of friends but we feel no sympathy for each other.
O_o… this is going to be tougher than I thought. ohh…..
Did you guys hate each other in the begining?
Never we love each other like sisters. We play and laugh and everything… But I feel bad how we can’t show negative feelings to each other.
Maybe just talking to her about it then? Nothing to extream, or you can get her out and do something with her, like bring her to the aquarium or something like that.
Ill help more tommarow Himiko-chan! See you tommarow night!
hmmmmm…… If you’re kool with heping her and not afraid of the negative emotions that tend to happen in life, just let her know that it’s okay to vent to you and not to hold back. her know that you’ll be there for her 100% good and bad, crying and frustration, whatever comes from this. Personally it sounds like this guy is a jerk if he’s hanging out with his ex on top of not answering her. I hope things work out or worked out.
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