boyfriend help: I think I said something to upset a co worker of mine. - Help.com

What do you mean by “do rides together”? And what makes you think you upset her?

lol…. she dumb, why would that make anyone mad?? do rides together

Explain that to her.. How people take things is mostly on them but if you think it will help the situation pull her aside and tell her that you weren’t meaning to offend or hurt her and that you don’t believe that she is getting a free ride off of her boyfriend.

Whether they operate the rides together or they ride on the rides together (still don’t quite understand), if that’s what she does with her boyfriend and it’s obvious to everyone who works there, why would she be upset with you?

But she is already stuck with the impression that you said she’s basically lazy, which you told her isn’t true. You apologized for what you did say. Just don’t talk about her or anyone else at work anymore, no matter how trivial you may think your words are. You may not mean anything bad by your words, but you never know how someone is going to react. You apologized. She can accept your apology or not. Either way, try to continue treat her with the same level of respect that you would expect for yourself and leave it at that.

It’s so annoying when you say something but it get’s interpreted completely differently and then that is what is passed on. You really need to ask to speak to her alone and tell her that it has been a big misunderstanding. Sometimes it can be a bit nerve-wracking when you have to talk to someone like this but it will make it so much better all round.