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I’m a sixteen year old girl and I am in grade eleven.
My mom died this past January, and she had been taking care of me and my sisters primarily for a about five years. (My dad had been working two hours away, and would only be home on weekends. If he wasn’t playing in his band on the weekend) Anyways, now he’s home constantly, and my sister and I have had enough of him. (By the way my sister is graduated and is eighteen) We get into fights constantly because of stupid things. Most of which are entirely his fault. He tries to control our every move. Keeping us under his thumb, so to speak. I can’t even go to my best friends (who so happens to be my next door neighbor) with out getting the third degree. He makes me cook every meal. My sister and I have to keep the house cleaner then it ever has been before. He’s making me work a job full time, and I have to save every cent of it. He doesn’t ask us to do anything, everything is an order. He is so old fashioned that it’s crazy. No tattoos, no piercings, no boyfriends, no shoulders showing, the majority of the chest has to be covered, anythingyou name that’s old fashionned, he enforces it. He also treats us like were children, he doesn’t realize that we have grown into young women. My sister and I have gotten to the point where we want to move out, and my sister says that she might hurt herself soon if something doesn’t happen soon. I don’t know what to do. I know i need to talk to him, but I’m scared of him. Scared of what he would do, or say. It doesn’t help that I’m uncomfortable being in the same room as him. (to the point where i would do anything to avoid spending anytime with him) Is there anything that anyone could think of that I could do, that would maybe lighten up the situation, but not be something that he would get too angry at….
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