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i can’t believe it.

basically, it’s been 4 weeks since i saw my boyfriend, and he has not been replying to my texts, calls or emails. i have just been on msn messenger and viewed his contact friends, and he has got a contact for another girl, plus he has deleted my contact. i just cannot belive it. what should i do?

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Emerald offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Oh hon, I hate to say it but if he hasn’t been replying AND has deleted you from his contact list, its not good. Maybe its time for you to say, well to hell with you baby, and move on…I know thats not what you want to hear, but the writing is on the wall I’m afraid. Pick yourself up, brush yourself off and find someone who will treat you with respect, cos if this guy can’t even tell you that he is ending your relationship and moving on then he is a plain and simple loser, and you can do better…(hugs)

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5 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

awww, thanks Emarald XX

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

No problems, I can empathise with what you are going through, so just remember to stay positive, focus on what you want in your life, and believe its already yours, and you will get it! I promise….Good luck (hugs)

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5 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

thanks XX

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

U are a more than welcome….just shout if you want to! xx

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5 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

This relationship simply did not work out. You can do a “post-mortem” on it and try to figure out why, but that can be frustrating because people don’t always do things for logical reasons. Don’t beat yourself up over it, though. He’s ONE guy, and I’m betting there are are at least 10 guy waiting to take his place and show you some real appreciation!

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Liven The Music offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

If he is just going to neglect you and pretend that you don’t exist then he obviously doesn’t deserve you. So just dump him and move on. He seems like a real jerk if he deletes his own girlfriend.

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