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I know a lot of girls like that, which is ashame because i rather know the real person not the person they want us to know

Everyone has a mask, even from those they hold dearest.

Post a reply i feel lost just looking at this.

You practically just explained me…. except… I’m a guy.

am 100% sure that , that poem is about you ^_^

ironicly i wrote one like that like 3 years ago ^_^

Everyone’s a train wreck….

So sad, why would anyone want to live a lie?

Soul, it is not nice to live a lie, but sometimes people have to, to save themselves from anymore heartache.

Amber eyes wrote:
Soul, it is not nice to live a lie, but sometimes people have to, to save themselves from anymore heartache.

No. Never, never, never, live a lie, I would rather be dead than live a lie.

Well, sometimes it’s not really a choice. It’s kind of forced to live that way.

To live a lie is to lose your soul, your heart, everything you believe in, you will become lost, empty, hopeless:(

Exactly. That’s why its so terrible.

(nods in agreeance with Anon) I live a half lie every dammned day of my life.

Anonymous wrote:
Well, sometimes it’s not really a choice. It’s kind of forced to live that way.

Forced:)? You could never force me to turn my back on the truth. It is my lifes blood.

Amber eyes wrote:
(nods in agreeance with Anon) I live a half lie every dammned day of my life.

half lie? Is the other half truth?

You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

Yes.

Commander Ikari wrote:

Amber eyes wrote:
(nods in agreeance with Anon) I live a half lie every dammned day of my life.

half lie? Is the other half truth?

SoulRising wrote:
You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

Would you prefer to lie and have people who you love happy or tell the truth and hurt them?

SoulRising wrote:
You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

You obviously don’t get it. There is no choice. There is no backbone. Once you get sucked in there is no getting out.

Amber eyes wrote:
Would you prefer to lie and have people who you love happy or tell the truth and hurt them?

Exactly.

There is only one truth, and it is not convoluted.

Amber eyes wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

Would you prefer to lie and have people who you love happy or tell the truth and hurt them?

Sad to say, the people who love me have got to be strong:( There is always a choice. You choose the easy way, but it is not the right way.

SoulRising wrote:
There is only one truth, and it is not convoluted.

Amber eyes wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

Would you prefer to lie and have people who you love happy or tell the truth and hurt them?

Sad to say, the people who love me have got to be strong:( There is always a choice. You choose the easy way, but it is not the right way.

It isn’t easy at all, it hurts me deeply, but when I see them smiling I know that I am doing right by them

Amber eyes wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
There is only one truth, and it is not convoluted.

Amber eyes wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

Would you prefer to lie and have people who you love happy or tell the truth and hurt them?

Sad to say, the people who love me have got to be strong:( There is always a choice. You choose the easy way, but it is not the right way.

It isn’t easy at all, it hurts me deeply, but when I see them smiling I know that I am doing right by them

Then the smiles you give are as false as the origin, and as fragile.

I have to go take my neighbor grocery shopping, TTFN:)

True, but a smile is a smile, nonetheless. It really hurts to lie to people like this, but there is nothing that can be done without hurting everybody… a lot. We just couldn’t do it.

SoulRising wrote:

Amber eyes wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
There is only one truth, and it is not convoluted.

Amber eyes wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
You are so sad people. Where is your backbone?

Would you prefer to lie and have people who you love happy or tell the truth and hurt them?

Sad to say, the people who love me have got to be strong:( There is always a choice. You choose the easy way, but it is not the right way.

It isn’t easy at all, it hurts me deeply, but when I see them smiling I know that I am doing right by them

Then the smiles you give are as false as the origin, and as fragile.

Looks like we will have to agree to disagree, as I would not want my friends to shed tears over me if I can spare them. Bye soul, have fun shopping

Anonymous wrote:
True, but a smile is a smile, nonetheless. It really hurts to lie to people like this, but there is nothing that can be done without hurting everybody… a lot. We just couldn’t do it.

Exactly.

Your smiles are plastic, they are not worth anything, there is more to life than pretending my friend, something an average person can not comprehend. A genuine smile is felt, not just admired:).

With a lot of practice, I have been able to fool even the most perceptive people into believing that I am really, truly, happy. When in reality it is the opposite. If you met me, you would think I was a really happy guy, you wouldn’t even realize how it burned me on the inside. Everytime I lie it feels like I am slowly crushing and twisting my heart, and it hurts like nothing I’ve ever known before.

i know always thought that wearing a mask was so not worth it really , all this pain for what? you have to make a decision really , to continue with what you build or take it all down and start all over.
you can trick everybody in the world but you cant trick urself , urself worth being happy you know trying to fit ppls shoe is an endless job
good luck in what ever you choose to do

Anonymous wrote:
With a lot of practice, I have been able to fool even the most perceptive people into believing that I am really, truly, happy. When in reality it is the opposite. If you met me, you would think I was a really happy guy, you wouldn’t even realize how it burned me on the inside. Everytime I lie it feels like I am slowly crushing and twisting my heart, and it hurts like nothing I’ve ever known before.

You are traveling down a slippery slope my friend, you have already passed the crest and are speeding towards the crash.

I am perfectly aware of that. But its more like you say than you may realize, see, we took a wrong turn, and our brakes are shot. We can either swerve and smash into a tree on the side of the road (Admit to true self), or enjoy the time we have left and crash at the end of the road. But there is no real way to turn back.

Anonymous wrote:
I am perfectly aware of that. But its more like you say than you may realize, see, we took a wrong turn, and our brakes are shot. We can either swerve and smash into a tree on the side of the road (Admit to true self), or enjoy the time we have left and crash at the end of the road. But there is no real way to turn back.

It’s never too late to be real my friend, it isn’t over until you say it is.

sorry to inform you but in life you have to sacrifies a lot of things if you want to get what you want , you cant expect to go on with life and everything will go gr8 cause it wont stay for long , problems occur you seek solutions the way i see it , you better start to solve ur problem or accept it