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i miss my exboyfriend so much.

i cheated on him, but i realized all i want is him. what can i do to get him back

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

x333 wrote:
i thought i wasnt happy.

If you were’nt happy, why not just break up with him, or talk to him? Sorry if im sounding harsh

and if he egged this boys house then he most likely still cares about you

so just talk to him and hopefully things will be cool :-)

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Speak with his mother and apologize

we all do foolish things once in a while =p

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

=S why can’t your mom know?

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

well have you done anything terribly wrong?

cheating is one thing but your sorry for what youve done..

if you truly like him then youll take your mothers punishment :-)

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

do you have a cell phone? does he have a cell phone?

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

if so just like txt him to meet somewhere apologize and work something out

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

you have to face the fact that you may never be able to date him anymore

im 14 and i got my first gf like 1 yr ago
she seems kinda annoying now that were not dating
but really, dating isn’t as fun as being goofy and fun with your friends

id rather have a female friend then a girlfriend because then you can jsut act yourself

=)

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

=( whyd you cheat on him if he was such a good boyfriend

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

=/

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

people make mistakes, don’t dwell on them. just do something corny and simple to show him that you need him and won’t mess up again. write him a card or something. then keep it on the down low. it’s possible to hide a relationship if you have to, and it seems like he’s up for giving you another chance so take it day by day.

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

howd he get out of the house if he was grounded :S

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (30 minutes after post)

optimismiles wrote:
people make mistakes, don’t dwell on them. just do something corny and simple to show him that you need him and won’t mess up again. write him a card or something. then keep it on the down low. it’s possible to hide a relationship if you have to, and it seems like he’s up for giving you another chance so take it day by day.

It is possible to hide relationships, No one knew i was dating Katie for like 2 months

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Although i didn’t have a cell phone at that time unfortuantly so thats another reasson why no one knew

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

This is a very intresting post =o

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

idk

their is a slight chance if u apologize to his mom she wont call your mom
or mybe if she does tell your mom then you can convince her not to punish u

you never know

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (36 minutes after post)

=(

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (37 minutes after post)

Then maybe his mom will understand :x
unless shes cold hearted

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Well it seems your not going to go out with him again
but you said he just came to your house recently?
you can still be friends, secretly
if you go to the same school you can hang out their too

=)

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Yeah your not over him.. lol

i can tell:

x333 wrote:
i seriously love him more than anything

x333 wrote:
yeah i know rightt. i just want him back more than anythign

x333 wrote:
he was such a good boyfriend to me. he carried me up and down stairs when i was on my crutches and brang me caugh drops in the snow storm becuase i didnt feel good. everythinggg

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (45 minutes after post)

Well it’s getting late, and i think i hear my mom waking up about to come downstairs and yell at me because its nearly 1 am

il be back to this post tommorow morning :-) nighty night

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (50 minutes after post)

hmm im on ps3 internet browser now, it seems that i can reply on this

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i love you baby x3 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

dood i think that you need to talk to him and try and work something out with him because you guys were meant to be and i dont like to see you cry. Courtney you mean the world to me and i hate seeing you in tears only when we are laughing soo hard that tears are streaming down our faces. I will really hate to see you and him apart and i dont like to see you thinking about him while you are crying and stuff. I love you dude and i dont like to see you sad because i was there when you guys met and i was there for your 1st kiss and i dont wanna be there for your last. Please try to work something out. I love you. marlayna.

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 hours, 42 minutes after post)

i love you baby x3 wrote:
dood i think that you need to talk to him and try and work something out with him because you guys were meant to be and i dont like to see you cry. Courtney you mean the world to me and i hate seeing you in tears only when we are laughing soo hard that tears are streaming down our faces. I will really hate to see you and him apart and i dont like to see you thinking about him while you are crying and stuff. I love you dude and i dont like to see you sad because i was there when you guys met and i was there for your 1st kiss and i dont wanna be there for your last. Please try to work something out. I love you. marlayna.

(its a girl not a “dood”)

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hyrra offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

circaxxsk8r wrote:

x333 wrote:
i thought i wasnt happy.

If you were’nt happy, why not just break up with him, or talk to him? Sorry if im sounding harsh

and if he egged this boys house then he most likely still cares about you

so just talk to him and hopefully things will be cool :-)

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