Love help: i love my boyfriend but i dont know what to do because my friends - Help.com

i think u should ask your love if he is it might be a risk if he gets offendend… but you no him most do you think that he would

NEVER give a man the benefit of a doubt. Treat him as if he is cheating, and make him show you he’s not. Make it clear he has to make a choice. Make it clear you won’t tolerate any reasons for doubt or mistrust. Make it clear he’ll be very much alone if you ever hear one more hint of this.

If he is, he’ll stop. Or he’ll leave. Either way, you’ll know.

If he’s not, he’ll stop doing whatever it is that makes people think he is. And he’ll know what will happen if he ever does cheat, so he’ll think twice. :)

If you trust your friends and they are your family - trust them. Friends are those you rely on.. not a guy you have been with for 1 month and a week. You need to seriously concider whether your friends would lie to you and ask probing questions perhaps if you still can’t believe it. See where they found this information and perhaps try see if for yourself.

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I don’t believe the idea that just because someone cheats they will always cheat. People change in an unlimited number of ways, and whether or not they cheat is just one of them.

Once fat always fat? Once Catholic, always Catholic? Once illiterate, always illiterate?

But…they do need to be held accountable for the pain they’ve caused.

ook. thanks for replying.
and as for this, i know its hard… but what i would do, is sit your friends down, and then sit your bf down and just talk to them about it. and if you dont get anywhere, pick who means the most to you, which i know is hard, but it might be necassry. and i would like to talk to you more. :) oh, and i am here if you ever need someone to talk to, about anything! :) best wishes!

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if so, your welcome.
and if not… i wish you the best!
well, i wish you the best no matter what lol
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I had a bestfriend who told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me, I dumped him and then she went out with him! I was told recently that the only person u can really trust is yourself. Ask your friends/family what proof they have, and although if he did cheat, its quite early on in your relationship and that can happen, before it grows into something deeper, sometimes guys/girls do that to find out how they actually feel about someone. You just have to work out if you think he is worth all this anxiety and then try not to ruin the time u spend together incase u friends are lying.

i went out with my bf for 3years. then i heard he had cheated on me with this girl who makes my skin crawl. he admitted to kissing her, but said that was as far as it wen so i forgave him. He often makes comments about other girls and i get worried and always think he is cheating. then when i think clearly about it, often it seems stupid - then other times it doesn’t. it is early in your relationship and things like that can happen, like bootzybabie200 said, talk to them and sort it out whether you get a definate answer or not. tell him that if you ever suspect anything funny you will leave and see how things go from there. because take it from someone who is completely 100% in love with a complete ***, LOVE definately is NOT worth it.

Dragon_Lady wrote:
NEVER give a man the benefit of a doubt. Treat him as if he is cheating, and make him show you he’s not. Make it clear he has to make a choice. Make it clear you won’t tolerate any reasons for doubt or mistrust. Make it clear he’ll be very much alone if you ever hear one more hint of this.

If he is, he’ll stop. Or he’ll leave. Either way, you’ll know.

If he’s not, he’ll stop doing whatever it is that makes people think he is. And he’ll know what will happen if he ever does cheat, so he’ll think twice. :)

Very good answer