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How do I get him back…

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I recently just got dumped by a guy that I have known for almost 2 years and had been dating for quite some time. But I messed up I cheated on him with my bestfriend/ex-boyfriend who is also his childhood friend. everything started off innocent but began to heat up though once I realized what was going on I asked my friend to stop and we both felt bad about doing this to my boyfriend, but I learned that night just how much I loved my boyfriend, he’s a sweet, wonderful guy, and he makes me smile and laugh like no one else can. finally about 4 months later I told him what happened he wasn’t that upset and forgave me but a week later it hit him, and he began to get depressed, he started thinking about problems in our relationship which I was the one trying to talk and figure out how to work things out and he could never communicate with me. well the day after our anniversary he and I went for a drive and he broke up with me. I haven’t been sleeping well or eating much lately and the worst part is…he still wants to be friends and I don’t know if I can do, he makes it so hard, he tells me he still loves me and kisses and hugs me….I am about to break….

~Heartbroken

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FDTTW offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (51 minutes after post)

If you haven’t already, tell him how you feel. Be completely honest. And don’t torture yourself. Try to enjoy his company and friendship.
I hope it all works out for the best.

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Headless Chicken offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

We all have to live with the consequences of our actions i’m afraid. You let someone down badly and now you have to live with it.

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