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my son was up screaming for almost 2hours last night

he is 7months old and he has never slept through the night. lately he’s been doing things that really concern me. he jerks his head and body while i feed him. he falls asleep in my arms and then screams when i put him in his crib. last night he was so calm, fell asleep great. then he woke up at 1:15am. again he was still calm so he fell right back asleep. i put him in his crib, and thats when it started. he started screaming this horrible cry. he was unable to be comforted. this lasted until 2:50am. it was non-stop. i tried EVERYTHING! after an hour, i was upset and stressed out. my fiance has to get up at 5am so i take care of the baby during the night. but aftert an hour i had to wake him up. i’m usually VERY patient with the baby. i started to get stressed out, i needed to take a deep breath. so his dad got up and he tried everything. when i left the room, i started crying. i just felt soo bad that i got upset, and i felt bad that i couldn’t comfort him. i also felt bad that he was so upset. he was crying as if in great pain. he’s at a tough age because he can not tell me whats wrong. i’ll be taking him to the pediatrician to deal with my concern for the baby. so i’m writing this for myself. i’m totally exhausted this morning. i still feel bad that i got soo upset. my fiance did not mind that i woke him up. he says i did the right thing by leaving the room to take a deep breath. i don’t really know what i’m looking for, maybe advice, maybe i just want to know is it ok to get upset? he’s my first and only child, so i am new to this. but i have to say i think i do a great job, and somehow manage to be very patient. well…because i love him so much.

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brat offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Lol.. Good to see that you are patient. There’s not much you can do about the “screaming at nights”. Its an amazing experience, of course, its filled with smelly diapers, screaming nights and many more, but in the end, the feeling that you feel when you hold that lil one.. AMAZING!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Hi, your baby is almost the same as mine when he was some months old. :)
You are doing a great job. When i know i was pregnant, this site helped me a lot.

http://parentcenter.babycenter.com/

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*Dorien* TTYL offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (45 minutes after post)

I swear that said 20 hours…I was like…Whaa? Poor mommy. Maybe your baby has Colic…Im not a mom or anything. I am only 14. But I know a lot of ppl who has babies and they cry all night and it always turns out that they have colic or something. But you should look it up. Here I even did it for you. Read that please. And let us know if thats what you think it is.

http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/Mo…

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

i would take him in to the Hospital for Children, there could be a few things wrong with him .Your Milk doesnt agree with him, let them check him out .I would not wait….

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

Get some Calpol give him a bath nice and calming. This should help. Does he draw his knees up to his belly?

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jezzy9 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 30 minutes after post)

simone wrote:
Get some Calpol give him a bath nice and calming. This should help. Does he draw his knees up to his belly?

like as if his tummy hurts? no. and the thing is, he’s fine before bed. it’s only in the middle of the night that he does this.

SecretCBluver wrote:
I swear that said 20 hours…I was like…Whaa? Poor mommy. Maybe your baby has Colic…Im not a mom or anything. I am only 14. But I know a lot of ppl who has babies and they cry all night and it always turns out that they have colic or something. But you should look it up. Here I even did it for you. Read that please. And let us know if thats what you think it is.

http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/Mo…

thank you that was sweet

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*Dorien* TTYL offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 hours, 27 minutes after post)

jezzy9 wrote:
thank you that was sweet

No problem anytime.

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jezzy9 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (23 hours, 47 minutes after post)

mas1s wrote:
I agree you should get him tested to see if he is allergic to the formula you are giving him, also maybe give him a spoon of gripe water just in case it is colic - but are you sure he isnt teething?

i’m still nursing so i’m pretty sure that he’s not colic. as for him teething-YES i think he is absolutely teething. last night he started to jerk his head and body while i was feeding him, so i gave him some teething gel and he calmed right down. last night was a good night. he woke up at 1,3 and 5. it’s only 6:30 now, and he’s still sleeping. so three times may seem like a lot but for him, lately, that’s a good night. also because he was calm, he woke up and went back down without any screaming fits.

Anyway we are going to the pediatrician today so i’m praying that all it is is teething. i hate to see him so upset. it breaks my heart. especially when i can’t do anything to comfort him

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BaconByAnyOtherName offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

well, if he begins the screaming for anything other than a colic or for teething, or just generally misbehaving, take your index finger and thumb like you were about to flick something, then give the baby the lightest of thumps in between the eyes. thats how they did it to me, anyway, it works pretty well.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Your an idiot {=) I can’t stop laughing.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Back to the matter at hand. It seem’s that at his age the waking up is a habit that you need to break. Try doing this. The first time he wakes up do what you usually do, Pick him up and give him a cuddle, coo, kiss put back to bed. Each time after Leave him for 2 minutes and if he hasn’t stopped go in don’t pick him up but lie him back down and stroke his tummy. Then try and increase the time before you respond. This is going to be hard as it’s not nice to hear your baby crying. You should be able to increase by 5 minutes each time. Eventually he will understand that you are still there and he will start to sleep longer between wake up. Eventually sleeping through the night. Did that make sense?

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BaconByAnyOtherName offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

why am i an idiot?

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BaconByAnyOtherName offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

coddling your child for crying and throwing a fit is sending mixed messages. its like a reward for misbehaving.

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*Dorien* TTYL offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

What does thumping the baby right above the nose do???

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Very good point, but she’s having problem’s with getting him to sleep and a whack between the eyes will not help in this situation.
Don’t get me wrong I have disiplined my child the same way short, sharp, shock, but at a much older age than this baby. The idiot remark was a jest you made me laugh.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

SecretCBluver wrote:
What does thumping the baby right above the nose do???

makes them stop. and if you even bothered to actually read my post i didnt say whack, i said

the lightest of thumps in between the eyes

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Ohhh. I see…Well No I don’t. But cool.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Awww. May I be the first to say. If thats your baby in the pic…He has a cute bottom. Lmao. Awwwwww so adorable.

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1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

people are so afraid to punish their kids anymore. geez.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
people are so afraid to punish their kids anymore. geez.

He’s only 7 months old…How do you punish a baby??? Take away his rattle??

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

YeOldeBacon The Bard wrote:

SecretCBluver wrote:
What does thumping the baby right above the nose do???

makes them stop. and if you even bothered to actually read my post i didnt say whack, i said

the lightest of thumps in between the eyes

I understood your terminology I just didn’t feel like using it. Sorry if there was any confusion.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

you realize theres a difference, right?

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jezzy9 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

SecretCBluver wrote:
Awww. May I be the first to say. If thats your baby in the pic…He has a cute bottom. Lmao. Awwwwww so adorable.

thank you. that picture was an action shot!:) i went to take a pic and he rolled over. at the time of the pic he wasn’t a pro at rolling over like he was now. i wasn’t trying to take a pic of his bottom! but if you could only see the before and after pics, it’s soo funny. this one is the after shot:)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

its ok to get up set everyone has there moments when the just need to take a walk or some thing and its normal for u to feel concerned with your child cause of course no one in there right mind want to see there kid in pain or distress. i think the reason ur kid freaked is because he may have gotten use to u holding him and not the crib so as soon as he realizes fully that he isn’t in Ur arms he flipped and on top he probably was still tired and cranky but I’m not doctor just my opinion i hope everything goes well and you find out truly what was bothering him

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