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shosta8 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Maybe he invited people because he doesn’t want it to be a formal date just yet? I remember when I was in about the 7-9th grades when people would go on dates with each other in the beginning they would take along a friend so it didn’t get too serious quickly. Do you think he might be doing something similar? Be patient with him and gauge his reactions… but all in all have a good time :)

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

I think it’s kind of an immaturity thing. I have a friend that everytime I invite him somewhere of over to my house he has to bring a boyfriend. I have gotten to the point where I don’t invite him too many places anymore because there are always strangers with us. It reminds me of when I was a little kid and some of my friends could never go anywhere with their parents unless a friend was invited along. idk?

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iLuv ♥ offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 367 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

shosta8 wrote:
Maybe he invited people because he doesn’t want it to be a formal date just yet? I remember when I was in about the 7-9th grades when people would go on dates with each other in the beginning they would take along a friend so it didn’t get too serious quickly. Do you think he might be doing something similar? Be patient with him and gauge his reactions… but all in all have a good time :)

He didnt invite ppl. Thats the stupid part. He told his one friend. That me and him were going on a “date” I never called it a date. I just asked him if me and him can go to the movies. When he told his friend. His friend just ASSUMED that he was inviting him and thats not what was happening. He was just simply running his mouth. And then before me or him could say anything. His friend asked his parents and they said he could tag alone. (Which was what neither of us wanted!) Then I guess his friend figured it was like a party. And he invited 5 more ppl. 3 boys and two girls…And so me and E decided we werent going anymore. And they were gonna go without us. But something happened. Where one person couldnt go anymore. Than one person wasnt going with out that person..So now its just me and e going again…yay lol

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iLuv ♥ offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 367 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

SoulRising wrote:
I think it’s kind of an immaturity thing. I have a friend that everytime I invite him somewhere of over to my house he has to bring a boyfriend. I have gotten to the point where I don’t invite him too many places anymore because there are always strangers with us. It reminds me of when I was a little kid and some of my friends could never go anywhere with their parents unless a friend was invited along. idk?

Its usually like that. We will invite like a whole buncha ppl. Just to go to six flags…But that was the whole plan. This time it was just a accident from running his mouth….Or his fingers. This was a gmail conversation when his friends started inviting and all of that

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shosta8 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Haha then that sounds really promising SecretCBluver :) I hope it goes well… but in the meantime get your sleep! You’ll want to be looking and feeling good for your date :)

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iLuv ♥ offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 367 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Lmao. I’ll try. Someone just posted a sleep post.That might help me out. Because I cant sleep either…So…Im hoping whoever posted that gets some good replies…and I can just take their info too hehe

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

SecretCBluver wrote:

SoulRising wrote:
I think it’s kind of an immaturity thing. I have a friend that everytime I invite him somewhere of over to my house he has to bring a boyfriend. I have gotten to the point where I don’t invite him too many places anymore because there are always strangers with us. It reminds me of when I was a little kid and some of my friends could never go anywhere with their parents unless a friend was invited along. idk?

Its usually like that. We will invite like a whole buncha ppl. Just to go to six flags…But that was the whole plan. This time it was just a accident from running his mouth….Or his fingers. This was a gmail conversation when his friends started inviting and all of that

That is funny:) LOL

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iLuv ♥ offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 367 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

Lol. I guess. Gmail is our thing. More than half of our class has gmails. And we all get on and just chat…Like Everyday. Since 6th grade…Idk who started it but its preetty coool. And sometimes…I wish gmail never was invented…This is one of those times.

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Cap¤Amic offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 59 minutes after post)

hehe someone has a date!!! Tell us about him

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iLuv ♥ offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 367 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Lol. He’s a year younger than me. But he is mexican with long curly hair that he wears in a ponytail. Kinda dark skin. About your color nameless. He’s really goofy and loud. Idk why but I always catch him skipping and pointing…Lmao. Its really funny because his hair bounces while he skips…And he is just so gorgeous and beautiful and great and fabulous…I can go on for years. So I should stop. Because NONE OF THAT MATTERS ANYMORE. We aren’t going anymore. You can read more on my latest post….

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iLuv ♥ edited this post 2 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

I am so confused.

Okay. So Im sure everyone is tired of me going on and on about my “date” with the guy i like…So there are three main post about it already…The first was titled..Im gonna do. Explaing about how I was gonna ask him out and stuff. The second is…Omg I did it! Explaing about how I did it and everything. The third is! Omg I wanna cry! Explaing about how the day was ruined by everyone who was inviting. Thus making our simple two ppl date into a 8 ppl date.

Now none of those matter anymore. The point is. I asked him out, He said yea, The plan was ruined, NOW ITS FIXED AGAIN!…It turned out that. All the ppl that were invited can not go anymore. Thank god!! I am so happy. But confused. Because now. I am super excited about the whole thing and I cant go to sleep. its 4:11 am and I really should be sleep…But I cant go because I am so excited. But im still confused about the whole…Inviting ppl. 2 ppl date turn into 8 ppl date. I pray that he doesnt invite anyone else. If he does…I might just have to get up the courage to say…No dont. I want it to be the two of us…But im scared to. So I pray he doesnt ask anyone

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