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honestly. the best way to do this is if ignoring isn’t helping, talk back, say something like at least im polite to people or tell them that at least im happy enough not to insult others.
dont insult them directly, but just say something of that sort

!!!! First of all let me apologize for all the stupid people who called you ugly. Second look at yourself and look at all your beautiful features… Don’t let these people get you down. I hope this isn’t getting your self esteem down… Being bigger isn’t actually a bad thing…Also think about this, is every single person who has called you ugly pretty and skinny themselves??? The odds are they arn’t. What gives them the chance to judge you!

some people are just jealous, you must give out a vibe that means that you are happy with yourself, other people react differently to that, they just try to make other people feel bad to make themselves look better and stronger. dont take it at heart. its the ones that are friends with you that will know for sure if you are ugly or not, why would they lie right? ask them one day and tell them to be completely honest.

have you been keeping things bottled up? that would explain why things are hurting more now then before. if you don’t let it out nothing will ever make it go away and then it adds on and on until there is no room left for anything

Aww… Are you sure this is the reason? Do you maybe think that you have gained weight? Not to seem mean, but if you feel worse when people say mean things they may effect you more because you are thinking they are true… :( But you could just be sick to death of them!

Is this another post on the same subject? i could swear I just replied to the same…..The fact that people have told you your pretty tell me to advise you to ‘let it go’.I havent been told that ever.Count your blessings and just believe it.

Don’t let the bar stewards get you down. You’ve got friends that care they are going to grow up lonely with that attitude.

The people calling you ugly are mean ugly inside type of people. They are miserable and get by in life by making others feel bad. I have been told that stuff too. I used to tell them other stuff back (not that I am suggesting you do this). Thes type of people point out the most obvious of stuff. Stuff that doesn’t take alot of brain power I guess. Just take heart you are not the only one who has gone through this and that you are a better person than they are. They are miserable people.
Stay Strong hon.

im sure your not ugly, and people are just a**holes

it all depends on your personality

ive seen girls that look really hot but when you meet them or talk to them they are the ugliest people ive met.

and look at beth ditto, shes hot!! (in a non-lesbian way)

Dont let it get ya down….I was tormented by other kids all thru my younger years and I really let it get me down and my self confidence went down and stayed down for 40 years. Talk about it with friends and keep your confidence they are not worth it. I think kids pick on others just to take the attention off of their own imperfections