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I need sum help.

Im Confused.

So theres this guy i have already dated, and he is curently daten my ex-best friend who took him from me.
Now me and this guy still hangout and have feelings 4 each other. He tells me he loves me but i asked him if he loved me then y is he with her and he replys for her money. When he aint wit her he is wit me. and i am still in love with him. But wut should i do?

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♥ Kristin Renee♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

It’s kinda hard when i see him every where
Trust me i tried. Any which way i went about it
i cant juss forget him

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cazzy offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

maybe you should wait till the split up then go for it

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cazzy offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

your gay

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cazzy offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

sorry i did not say that honest it was a friend next to me

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

1. you don’t want to be with a guy that wants girls for MONEY!!!

stay well clear!!

Plus you cant trust him because we went with your bessie mate….so why the hell do you still want him?

Steer clear. Your better off without him by FAR!!

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jezzy9 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

♥Rαvεr♥ wrote:
1. you don’t want to be with a guy that wants girls for MONEY!!!

stay well clear!!

Plus you cant trust him because we went with your bessie mate….so why the hell do you still want him?

Steer clear. Your better off without him by FAR!!

i with raver.
if you did get back with him, he may take your new best friend. if he did that to you once, he will do it again. that’s obviously the type of person he is. also he is a user! you definitely don’t want that. from her he wants money, maybe he’ll want something from you. it could be anything….. you deserve better. staying clear of him will stop you from getting youur heart broken(again!)
you will probably never be friends with the x-best friend thats with him, right? so why give him another chance?!
So many girls do that, they will hate the girl forever and then forgive the guy! makes no sense to me…

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1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

jezzy9 wrote:

♥Rαvεr♥ wrote:
1. you don’t want to be with a guy that wants girls for MONEY!!!

stay well clear!!

Plus you cant trust him because we went with your bessie mate….so why the hell do you still want him?

Steer clear. Your better off without him by FAR!!

i with raver.
if you did get back with him, he may take your new best friend. if he did that to you once, he will do it again. that’s obviously the type of person he is. also he is a user! you definitely don’t want that. from her he wants money, maybe he’ll want something from you. it could be anything….. you deserve better. staying clear of him will stop you from getting youur heart broken(again!)
you will probably never be friends with the x-best friend thats with him, right? so why give him another chance?!
So many girls do that, they will hate the girl forever and then forgive the guy! makes no sense to me…

Me too

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♥ Kristin Renee♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

The girl i will hate for the simple fact
this is the second time she did that to me.
and thanks for all the advice

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

its the guys fault as much as the girl…don’t let this guy get away with it.

You can move on and be much happier without them both. Good luck :P

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♥ Kristin Renee♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 hours, 13 minutes after post)

I kno i could b much happier but
i dont understand how to
go about juss up and leaven him
yah kno.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 hours, 21 minutes after post)

You don’t know how to be happy?

Well..what kind of things do you enjoy doing? do you have any goals?

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♥ Kristin Renee♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (20 hours, 28 minutes after post)

I kno how to b happy. Dont get me wrong im a
all around happy person. But like im Happier then n e time
when im wit him. and i dont kno if i could juss
stop being around him. B.c when im with him i cant
help but to juss smile. Ya Digg?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

I think you need to learn to make yourself happy…its ok to feel happy when round a person.

But you have to be really careful and learn to distinguish the different emotions. Its ok for a guy to make you feel happy. But if they guy was to go…you need to be able to not let it make you really unhappy.

Like..obviously its a sad thing. But you cant let it get you down. You have to get that strength for yourself…because no matter what life throws at you you’ll always end up with yourself everytime! Your the one person you can rely on. So make yourself what you wanna be and dont ever rely on someone else for your happiness.

If they add to it..just enjoy it :)

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♥ Kristin Renee♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

Yah i understand that i shouldnt have to relay on him.
If he does end up choosen her i think
i can b ready for that. I kno where i stand.
Thanks

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