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So I work at starbucks and I am really low on money, my boss is a great guy except he always asks me for sexual favors.

Ive done it for like 3 months and got promoted to assistant manager in one month. He told me if i would go all the way I could be a manager. I dont feel comfortably and I dont think my husband would like it. Me and my husband need the money and my boss told me to keep this secret or ill be gone. What should I do I need HELP

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Moo. offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

You should leave the job immediately. you sound like you are in danger.
this man should NOT be asking for sex with an employee. he could get himself and you into a lot of trouble. there are plenty of other jobs out there!
you should probably tell your husband and ask for his opinion. You should be the person to tell him what is going on otherwise he might find out from someone else. you could ultimately lose your job, lose your husband and lose your dignity if you let this continue !

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

starbucks has a stirct policy against sexual harassment and this deff qualifyes sue his ***

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