Love help: I’m underage..

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I’m underage..

Basically in Canada the age of concent was 14.. But not too long ago it was changed to 16.. There are consdishions if your 14 or 15.. You can be with someone as much as 5 years older.. But the one I’m with is 7.. I can’t just stop seeing him.. I don’t know what to do.. Help?

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jcd 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

You can stop seeing him, you just don’t want to. Just remember, if you guys get caught, he is the one who will get in trouble with the law. Do you really want that?

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I know, but I’m just saving that as a last resort.. I really want to find something els to do…

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jcd 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Saving what as a last resort? Him getting in trouble with the law?

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Without him.. Basically I’m just depressed and sometimes suicidal

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

No.. Stopping seeing him.. I really don’t want to.. Its so hard and unfair

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jcd 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

You need to see someone about your depression. If you can’t be happy with yourself, it’s going to affect your relationships in a negative way.

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I can’t, someone will just force me into councling.. AGAIN.. And then I might do something stupid.. Like slit my wrist.. Again

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

You can’t think of anything els?

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dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

the one that you are with is 7 ? and you are 14? I just want to be sure I am reading this correctly.

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

No, 7 years older, hes 21

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Is there really nothing els I can do?

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jcd 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Not that I can think of.

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Anonymous #
3 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

all you can do is wait till you are 16

dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

age of consent laws, i guess, are around for a few very specific reasons. But they don’t preclude you from seeing him. Rules and laws are invasive by nature, how can a law always be correct? But jail time and being labeled one who child abuses is a serious threat and must be respected. What are you two doing together?

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Alot..

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Things would be ok if my dad wasn’t crazy.. I was at him place on tuesday, he found out, he called the cops, and I ran.. Ever since then I’ve been so afraid and worried

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jcd 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Your dad isn’t crazy. He’s just trying to protect you.

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Protect me by NEVER letting me see any of my friends? My age or not, girl or guy, for 2 and a half years?

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Its not fair because I was molested and nothing happened to him, now I’m with someone a little bit too old who definatly ISN’T using me and seeing him again is already a risk

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jcd 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Some parents are over protective. They do things like that because they care abouth what happens to you and they know there are a lot of bad people out in the world.

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dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

( I know the conversation moved on.. but I want to say this anyway)

then consider that your desire for him may be because he knows how to do.. “alot”..and at 14 you may think hes a god to be able to produce (in you) these feelings. Your Dad knows that.

Did you say your dad wont let you see anyone? how does he keep you from your friends?

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

I live in a small town, I’ve been moved around in schools alot so none of my friends live in the area, I can’t even grab a buss

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

And its not that he knows how to do “alot” lol. Hes just really sweet.. I like him because hes mature but he can also be really goofy at times

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

I’m not like most my age, I’m not so foolish

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dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

alright. I just felt compelled to bring up the obvious. You do sound mature. and he sounds like quite a find… mature, goofy, and sweet.

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

He is, thats why I don’t want to let go so easy.. I can’t just stop seeing him.. Hes so special

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

And I totally type-o-ed my e mail..

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dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

If you love him as much as it sounds. You may consider protecting him (from himself and his love for you) and keep your relationship away from the physical until you are “of age”. You sound like you have the strength to do that.

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Maybe but.. Without my fathers permission he’ll just call the cops again.. I’m really in a jam

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dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

that I dont understand. Call the cops about what?

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

I don’t know.. I guess cuz he lied about me being at his place.. And I was “Misssing” but still, even if he does know next time, he’ll probably do the same thing

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dontAsk&IwontLie 369 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

I see why this is so confusing for you. There is just way too much going on. When I get back home Ill check in on this post, I would like to know that you are working things out. Peace hun.

devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

Arghh..

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devil_gril36 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

k, Ty for everything

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